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		<title>Comment on Hiring My Pleasure Employees for Super Customer Experience by Hiring My Pleasure Employees for Super Customer Experience &#124; Kate Nasser &#124; Designing design thinking driven operations &#124; Scoop.it</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hiring My Pleasure Employees for Super Customer Experience &#124; Kate Nasser &#124; Designing design thinking driven operations &#124; Scoop.it</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 06:29:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Hiring My Pleasure Employees for Super Customer Experience by Annette Franz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Annette Franz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 20:56:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kate, I couldn&#039;t agree with you more. I don&#039;t believe either phrase is a red flag for hiring. I&#039;ve never considered &quot;my pleasure&quot; to be inappropriate; quite the contrary: someone enjoyed delivering the service they delivered for me. And as someone who says &quot;no problem&quot; a lot, I take issue with it being a red flag because my meaning is as you state it: not a problem for me to help you, happy to help you, etc. 

By the way, when I say &quot;oh really&quot; (another phrase the author mentions), it typically means that I have been listening and have likely learned something new from you, not that I don&#039;t believe you. For &quot;no problem&quot; and &quot;oh really,&quot; I think tone and delivery are key to making them good phrases to use with customers.

However, on those phrases alone, I would not base my hiring decisions.

Thanks for taking the counterpoint to article.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kate, I couldn&#8217;t agree with you more. I don&#8217;t believe either phrase is a red flag for hiring. I&#8217;ve never considered &#8220;my pleasure&#8221; to be inappropriate; quite the contrary: someone enjoyed delivering the service they delivered for me. And as someone who says &#8220;no problem&#8221; a lot, I take issue with it being a red flag because my meaning is as you state it: not a problem for me to help you, happy to help you, etc. </p>
<p>By the way, when I say &#8220;oh really&#8221; (another phrase the author mentions), it typically means that I have been listening and have likely learned something new from you, not that I don&#8217;t believe you. For &#8220;no problem&#8221; and &#8220;oh really,&#8221; I think tone and delivery are key to making them good phrases to use with customers.</p>
<p>However, on those phrases alone, I would not base my hiring decisions.</p>
<p>Thanks for taking the counterpoint to article.</p>
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		<title>Comment on People-Skills: Be &amp; Perform Like a Ferrari by Kate Nasser</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kate Nasser</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 20:24:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love your last line Michael -- Stop doing silly things and you will stop getting silly results.  In addition to behavioral examples, have the person show you their service skills.  Give them scenarios that have service nuances and see how they handle it.  Behavior is great yet unless you see them in action -- there is more room for doubt.

Fill in the blanks don&#039;t create blanks with a few phrases!

Thanks for your contribution.  Great addition.
Kate</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love your last line Michael &#8212; Stop doing silly things and you will stop getting silly results.  In addition to behavioral examples, have the person show you their service skills.  Give them scenarios that have service nuances and see how they handle it.  Behavior is great yet unless you see them in action &#8212; there is more room for doubt.</p>
<p>Fill in the blanks don&#8217;t create blanks with a few phrases!</p>
<p>Thanks for your contribution.  Great addition.<br />
Kate</p>
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		<title>Comment on Hiring My Pleasure Employees for Super Customer Experience by Adam Toporek</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adam Toporek</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 17:14:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s funny... The author had some good points elsewhere in the list, but I agree he really missed the point with &quot;my pleasure.&quot; It truly is shorthand for all of the sentiments you list above. And as you and Micah point out, Chik-Fil-A and others have built world class service organizations on the back of that very phrase.

I think the trick is not filtering out people who say &quot;my pleasure&quot; in an interview; the trick is knowing which applicants really mean it!

Good stuff Kate!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s funny&#8230; The author had some good points elsewhere in the list, but I agree he really missed the point with &#8220;my pleasure.&#8221; It truly is shorthand for all of the sentiments you list above. And as you and Micah point out, Chik-Fil-A and others have built world class service organizations on the back of that very phrase.</p>
<p>I think the trick is not filtering out people who say &#8220;my pleasure&#8221; in an interview; the trick is knowing which applicants really mean it!</p>
<p>Good stuff Kate!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Hiring My Pleasure Employees for Super Customer Experience by Michael Pace</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael Pace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 17:07:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Kate for this post; it got the blood boiling.  This is why the preponderance of customer service is barely good or adequate, and not great.  Look at how they are recruiting.  I am in agreement with you Kate that &quot;my pleasure&quot; is a perfectly acceptable response.  

However, to base the value of a recruit on phrases instead of uncovering behavioral examples of superior service or initiating case questions.  Get behavioral examples of the person delivering outstanding service.  Discover if the recruit can exercise responsible freedom and be empowered to go next steps.  Does the person have a passion for your subject matter?

Stop doing silly things, and maybe you will stop getting silly results.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Kate for this post; it got the blood boiling.  This is why the preponderance of customer service is barely good or adequate, and not great.  Look at how they are recruiting.  I am in agreement with you Kate that &#8220;my pleasure&#8221; is a perfectly acceptable response.  </p>
<p>However, to base the value of a recruit on phrases instead of uncovering behavioral examples of superior service or initiating case questions.  Get behavioral examples of the person delivering outstanding service.  Discover if the recruit can exercise responsible freedom and be empowered to go next steps.  Does the person have a passion for your subject matter?</p>
<p>Stop doing silly things, and maybe you will stop getting silly results.</p>
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		<title>Comment on People-Skills: Be &amp; Perform Like a Ferrari by #TChat Preview: Employee Superpowers: Is There an Assessment For? &#124; Career Management and Workplace Culture Blog &#124; TalentCulture.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>#TChat Preview: Employee Superpowers: Is There an Assessment For? &#124; Career Management and Workplace Culture Blog &#124; TalentCulture.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 15:11:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Hiring My Pleasure Employees for Super Customer Experience by Kate Nasser</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kate Nasser</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 14:36:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Silly is right Guy.  when you find these &quot;welcomers&quot; as Richard R. Shapiro, author of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.richardrshapiro.com/the-welcomer-edge-book/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Welcomer Edge&quot;&lt;/a&gt; would call them, -- why would you turn them away from your door?

Thanks for your time/comment on this one.
Kate</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Silly is right Guy.  when you find these &#8220;welcomers&#8221; as Richard R. Shapiro, author of <a href="http://www.richardrshapiro.com/the-welcomer-edge-book/" rel="nofollow">The Welcomer Edge&#8221;</a> would call them, &#8212; why would you turn them away from your door?</p>
<p>Thanks for your time/comment on this one.<br />
Kate</p>
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		<title>Comment on Hiring My Pleasure Employees for Super Customer Experience by Kate Nasser</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kate Nasser</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 14:32:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the background on that one Micah. I&#039;m with you about non-scripted.  Things must sound genuine and sincere.  
All the best,
Kate</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the background on that one Micah. I&#8217;m with you about non-scripted.  Things must sound genuine and sincere.<br />
All the best,<br />
Kate</p>
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		<title>Comment on Hiring My Pleasure Employees for Super Customer Experience by Guy Winch Ph.D.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Guy Winch Ph.D.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 14:25:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Kate,
I totally agree with your post! In fact, it was my pleasure to read it. When hiring customer service employees what matters most is the feeling they give you when you speak with them, their listening skills, eye contact, smile, and yes, their &#039;no problem&#039; attitude. To turn down applicants who use the exact same phrases used by most people looking for such jobs seems silly and......out of touch with how people speak today.
@GuyWinch</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Kate,<br />
I totally agree with your post! In fact, it was my pleasure to read it. When hiring customer service employees what matters most is the feeling they give you when you speak with them, their listening skills, eye contact, smile, and yes, their &#8216;no problem&#8217; attitude. To turn down applicants who use the exact same phrases used by most people looking for such jobs seems silly and&#8230;&#8230;out of touch with how people speak today.<br />
@GuyWinch</p>
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		<title>Comment on Hiring My Pleasure Employees for Super Customer Experience by Micah Solomon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Micah Solomon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 13:42:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;My Pleasure&quot; was consciously brought into modern-day hospitality by the original team (Horst Schulze and co.) who created the modern-day Ritz-Carlton.  The idea was that the Ritz could hire people from a wide variety of backgrounds and educational levels based on their people-pleasing traits and join them together in an intentional, cohesive language of service.  

However, the Ritz actually gave people a variety of synonyms for &quot;you&#039;re welcome,&quot; so that they wouldn&#039;t sound too scripted (the other options include &quot;certainly,&quot; etc.) ; nonetheless the majority of employees seemed to choose &quot;my pleasure,&quot; so it became a sort of Ritz-Carlton trademark.   

Since that time, companies that consciously emulate Ritz-Carlton practices (Chik-fil-A, whom you mention above, is in this group) use the phrase, and more generally,  the people who have worked at the Ritz have dispersed throughout the hospitality industry, bringing the phrase with them.  

The complete story -- and its current-day implications -- are on pp 15 onward in my book &quot;Exceptional Service, Exceptional Profit.&quot;  A free chapter -- including this story -- is available at the following direct link:  http://www.micahsolomon.com/books.html

Micah Solomon
&quot;A new guru of customer service excellence.” --The Financial Post
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;My Pleasure&#8221; was consciously brought into modern-day hospitality by the original team (Horst Schulze and co.) who created the modern-day Ritz-Carlton.  The idea was that the Ritz could hire people from a wide variety of backgrounds and educational levels based on their people-pleasing traits and join them together in an intentional, cohesive language of service.  </p>
<p>However, the Ritz actually gave people a variety of synonyms for &#8220;you&#8217;re welcome,&#8221; so that they wouldn&#8217;t sound too scripted (the other options include &#8220;certainly,&#8221; etc.) ; nonetheless the majority of employees seemed to choose &#8220;my pleasure,&#8221; so it became a sort of Ritz-Carlton trademark.   </p>
<p>Since that time, companies that consciously emulate Ritz-Carlton practices (Chik-fil-A, whom you mention above, is in this group) use the phrase, and more generally,  the people who have worked at the Ritz have dispersed throughout the hospitality industry, bringing the phrase with them.  </p>
<p>The complete story &#8212; and its current-day implications &#8212; are on pp 15 onward in my book &#8220;Exceptional Service, Exceptional Profit.&#8221;  A free chapter &#8212; including this story &#8212; is available at the following direct link:  <a href="http://www.micahsolomon.com/books.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.micahsolomon.com/books.html</a></p>
<p>Micah Solomon<br />
&#8220;A new guru of customer service excellence.” &#8211;The Financial Post</p>
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		<title>Comment on Hiring My Pleasure Employees for Super Customer Experience by Khalid</title>
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		<dc:creator>Khalid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 07:17:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kate,

I totally agree with you and it&#039;s my pleasure to read your fabulous articles which I have no problem in tweeting to others :)

Regards,
Khalid</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kate,</p>
<p>I totally agree with you and it&#8217;s my pleasure to read your fabulous articles which I have no problem in tweeting to others <img src='http://katenasser.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Regards,<br />
Khalid</p>
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		<title>Comment on Hiring My Pleasure Employees for Super Customer Experience by Martina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Martina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2012 14:25:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good post, Kate.
It those people who possess that self-sustaining morale boost you want on your front line for the difficult work of serving customer needs, especially when things are not going well. These are the people that can work with even the worst of your customers and make it an ultimately pleasureable experience for everyone. In whihc case they will garner even more business for you.
Martina
@martinamcgowan</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good post, Kate.<br />
It those people who possess that self-sustaining morale boost you want on your front line for the difficult work of serving customer needs, especially when things are not going well. These are the people that can work with even the worst of your customers and make it an ultimately pleasureable experience for everyone. In whihc case they will garner even more business for you.<br />
Martina<br />
@martinamcgowan</p>
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		<dc:creator>Hiring My Pleasure Employees for Super Customer Experience &#124; Kate Nasser</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2012 13:02:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<dc:creator>Giovanni Gaudelli</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2012 04:25:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post Kate! I agree with previous comments. Reframing an issue in a positive way is much more effective and conducive to productivity and success. 

In a DON&#039;T there&#039;s automatically a DO. If I tell you not to think about a green apple, well guess what: you&#039;ve just thought about...a green apple! 

Creating an environment that encourages a positive attitude usually paves the wave for constructive interactions and communication. For leaders (not bosses), walking the talk, caring for people and involving them in the solutions is definitely the better approach.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post Kate! I agree with previous comments. Reframing an issue in a positive way is much more effective and conducive to productivity and success. </p>
<p>In a DON&#8217;T there&#8217;s automatically a DO. If I tell you not to think about a green apple, well guess what: you&#8217;ve just thought about&#8230;a green apple! </p>
<p>Creating an environment that encourages a positive attitude usually paves the wave for constructive interactions and communication. For leaders (not bosses), walking the talk, caring for people and involving them in the solutions is definitely the better approach.</p>
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		<dc:creator>12 Most Beneficial People-Skills to Hit the Bullseye When You Have No Power &#124; 12 Most</dc:creator>
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