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People Skills Excellence – Our Chat Topic.


WHEN/WHERE: Join us Sunday Feb 22nd, 2015 on Twitter at 10AM ET. Hashtag: #peopleskills


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People Skills Excellence – How to Develop It?

Join us Sunday Feb. 22nd 10am ET to explore people skills excellence. People skills feed success in business, careers, and relationships. Our ability to interact well affects our very lives. So what is people skills excellence and how do we develop it?




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People Skills Excellence: Why and How?

There are so many factors that contribute to how humans interact. Is it actually possible to achieve some level of people skills excellence? Really?

Some questions to get us thinking in advance of Sunday’s #Peopleskills global Twitter chat. If you want to suggest a question, please post it in the comments section below!

  • What is people skills excellence?
  • How are people skills important/unimportant in life?
  • When do they most affect you?
  • In such a diverse world, it is possible to achieve people skills excellence?
  • What is your reaction to someone who has poor people skills?
  • How do values and goals affect people skills development?
  • In search of people skills excellence – what are the most important steps?
  • Personality types: what impact does that have on developing people skills excellence?
  • What people skills have you developed in the past that help you the most now?
  • How can we achieve people skills excellence online?
  • What guidance would you give to someone who struggles with human interaction?
  • How does society help or hinder the development of people skills excellence?



These are just some questions to get us thinking. Actual questions will post live during the chat.


Bring your experience, curiosity, a beverage, and join the community on Sunday Feb. 22nd 10am ET to explore people skills excellence.


I also invite you to continue this chat by joining the Google+ People Skills Community, The Facebook Group People Skills That Really Matter and the LinkedIn Group People Skills Succeed to be a part of all the people skills discussions everyday 24×7. Get your people skills community member badge here.



Shout Out of Gratitude

My gratitude to all who participate and grow the people skills global community on Twitter (#peopleskills), Google+, LinkedIn, and Facebook. We welcome your suggestions for topics, offers to co-host, and most especially your diverse insights.

Continued thanks to generous chat moderators Chantal Bechervaise, Dave Moore, Hoda Maalouf, Tracy Shroyer, Jandis Price and Tom Rhodes for their time and contributions.






Hope you will all join people skills global Twitter chat (#peopleskills) this Sunday Feb. 22nd 2015, 10am ET/7am PT people skills excellence.

Everyone is welcome! We have only one rule in People Skills Global Chat: Respect for all even when we disagree.






TIP: If you have never been in a Twitter chat, you may find it helpful to log on to Tweetchat.com, or Twubs.com and enter hashtag #peopleskills. Sign in to your Twitter account. The venue will insert the hashtag on each of your tweets and you will see all the tweets on one screen. Other tools available are Tchat.io, Hootsuite and TweetDeck.

I am the founder and host of the chat and will be happy to answer any questions you have in advance: Email me.


Connect with you this Sun. Feb. 22nd, 2015, in #peopleskills global Twitter chat 10am ET on people skills excellence.


Until then, as always, I wish you bonds of happiness and success!

From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™

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Modern Leadership & Teamwork: Selfless Giving Not Faceless Fortune

When you think of modern leadership, does the word selfless come to mind? So much is written about leaders doing more listening less speaking. Being more like a servant to the team and less like the supreme ruler.

As leaders face this definition of modern leadership, many start to wonder if selfless actually means faceless. Team members then face the same dilemma in defining teamwork.




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Modern Leadership & Teamwork: Be Selfless Not Faceless

There are simple yet significant differences between selfless and faceless.

  1. Selfless leaders and teammates generously give their talents, ideas, and interest in others.

    Faceless believe their ideas aren’t worthy of consideration. Downside: What isn’t offered is unrealized success. Everyone matters for you never know who will contribute the winning detail.


  2. Selfless leaders and teammates share responsibility and accountability.

    Faceless hide from it all. Downside: Splintered organization and a culture of blame.


  3. Selfless leaders and teammates are confident and flexible.

    Modern leadership and teamwork is not about telling or asking. It’s knowing when to do each. Faceless lacks the confidence to do both.


  4. Selfless leaders and teammates seek first to understand then to be understood.

    Faceless seek only to understand. Downside: Groupthink. What isn’t discussed can be dangerous. This is far from modern leadership and teamwork.


  5. Selfless leaders and teammates express appreciation to each other.

    They realize there are many “I’s” in team. They honor and celebrate the diversity of talents. This encourages more contribution to the team. With new generations in the workplace, honoring individual contribution is critical. Faceless overlook the individuals. Downside: Missed opportunities to develop maximum contribution.


  6. Selfless leaders and teammates have tough conversations with respect and civility.

    They care about the outcome and each other. Faceless avoid the tough moments for their own comfort. Downside: Less successful organization.


Special Concerns for Leaders

If you are faceless …

  • you don’t inspire or engage team members.
  • team members can feel abandoned not empowered.
  • team members can believe they must act the same way you do.
  • team members can feel unappreciated and seek other employment.
  • teams members can feel like your organization is a dead end.
  • selfish team members can become the de facto leaders and unravel the culture of teamwork.



For modern leadership and teamwork, be selfless not faceless. Bring your generosity, talents, curiosity, courage, patience, and people skills to work every day. The result is a high performing organization that sustains success with inspiration, support, and stellar efforts.


Here’s a partner post w/ additional details: 12 Professional People Skills to Succeed Without Authority


What modern leadership & teamwork challenges have you met with selflessness?



From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™

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Great Customer Service Staff: Recruit These 15 Natural Traits

For years I have been able to spot job applicants who are naturally great at customer service. They excel at it. They have an ease, commitment, and skill that makes them great. They have a natural calling to serve others and they answer that call very well.



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Recruit Naturally Great Customer Service Staff

As more and more managers asked me how I picked naturally great customer service staff, I created this list of traits and behaviors. It was an interesting exercise to turn my people skills intuition into concrete traits you can unearth in interviews.

Here’s what the naturally great customer service staff do:

  1. Accept the absurdity of life without using sarcasm toward the customer.
  2. They easily adapt; their need for control is low.

  3. They listen with empathy.
  4. They brilliantly balance objectivity and caring.
  5. They initiate both caring and action. This is essential for dealing with upset customers.

  6. They know that they can’t change others — only their own perspectives and reactions. More importantly, they don’t want to change others.
  7. They love diversity. They are inspired and excited by it. They are non-judgmental.

  8. They exhibit a high sense of ownership and teamwork.
  9. They understand the big picture and show attention to detail; they follow-through.

  10. They see and hear far more than what the customer is saying and use it well.
  11. They continuously learn from interactions and quickly reapply this insight.

  12. They are self-confident not arrogant. They are comfortable with customers questioning their authority and influence appropriately.
  13. They have a thick skin and a warm heart. This makes them resilient and prevents them from burning out.

  14. They believe service and servitude are completely different. The first you choose; the second you don’t. They are proud to serve.
  15. They love to serve because of the giving — not to be liked or loved in return.


One caution: Be wary of job applicants who say they like customer service work because they like being appreciated. When the difficult customers are and the thank yous aren’t, these employees become frustrated and may do poorly. Customer service is about caring for others not about the customers caring for them.



Recruit and retain naturally great customer service staff by:

  • Understanding and believing that these people actually exist. Look in diverse pools of talent.
  • Using above list to hire friendly. Then train technically.
  • Giving them leeway in interacting with customers. Rigid scripts work against their natural talents.
  • Treating them with respect and trust. It sustains their natural talent.



You can easily trust and empower them to wow the customers. Since they are highly responsible and talented, the customer experiences the ultimate in care and action — in the moment, every time.

The consistently high quality service these great customer service staff deliver is your winning business advantage!



From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™

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5 Powerful Beliefs to Win Over Rude Angry Customers
11 Wining Beliefs for Superior Customer Service Experience
Customer Service People Skills: 10 Non-Defensive Responses

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People Skills Appreciation & Love – Our Chat Topic.


WHEN/WHERE: Join us Sunday Feb 15th, 2015 on Twitter at 10AM ET. Hashtag: #peopleskills


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People Skills Appreciation & Love: The True Influencer?

Join us Sunday Feb. 15th 10am ET to explore people skills appreciation and love. Is appreciation and love the true influencer? Does it touch people in ways that we can only see in hindsight? On this Valentines Day weekend, we want to explore the deeper side of people skills appreciation and love.




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People Skills Appreciation & Love: What are their true value?

We have countless interactions every single day. Whether at work or in our personal lives, we have many opportunities to show our appreciation and love for others. How often do we actually express it? What would happen if we did?

Some questions to get us thinking in advance of Sunday’s #Peopleskills global Twitter chat:

  • What qualities do you treasure & appreciate in others?
  • How does being appreciated or unappreciated affect relationships?
  • How important is it to you that others appreciate you and your efforts?
  • When are people most likely to express appreciation to others?
  • What stops people from showing appreciation to others?
  • Are people more likely to appreciate others like them or different from them? Why?
  • How can people move from feeling jealous to feeling love & appreciation for others?
  • Employee appreciation: Should leaders express it more? Why/why not?
  • Employee engagement: What role does appreciation play in this?
  • How often do you express appreciation and what happens when you do?
  • What is the relationship between empathy and appreciation, if at all?
  • How have people skills impacted your ability to express appreciation?



These are just some questions to get us thinking. Actual questions will post live during the chat.


Bring your experience, curiosity, a beverage, and join the community on Sunday Feb. 15th 10am ET to explore people skills appreciation and love.


I also invite you to continue this chat by joining the Google+ People Skills Community, The Facebook Group People Skills That Really Matter and the LinkedIn Group People Skills Succeed to be a part of all the people skills discussions everyday 24×7. Get your people skills community member badge here.



Shout Out of Gratitude

My gratitude to all who participate and grow the people skills global community on Twitter (#peopleskills), Google+, LinkedIn, and Facebook. We welcome your suggestions for topics, offers to co-host, and most especially your diverse insights.

Continued thanks to generous chat moderators Chantal Bechervaise, Dave Moore, Hoda Maalouf, Tracy Shroyer, Jandis Price and Tom Rhodes for their time and contributions.






Hope you will all join people skills global Twitter chat (#peopleskills) this Sunday Feb. 15th 2015, 10am ET/7am PT people skills appreciation and love.

Everyone is welcome! We have only one rule in People Skills Global Chat: Respect for all even when we disagree.






TIP: If you have never been in a Twitter chat, you may find it helpful to log on to Tweetchat.com, or Twubs.com and enter hashtag #peopleskills. Sign in to your Twitter account. The venue will insert the hashtag on each of your tweets and you will see all the tweets on one screen. Other tools available are Tchat.io, Hootsuite and TweetDeck.

I am the founder and host of the chat and will be happy to answer any questions you have in advance: Email me.


Connect with you this Sun. Feb. 15th, 2015, in #peopleskills global Twitter chat 10am ET on people skills appreciation and love.


Until then, as always, I wish you bonds of happiness and success!

From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™

©2015 Kate Nasser, CAS, Inc. Somerville, NJ. I appreciate your sharing the link to this post on your social streams. However, if you want to re-post or republish the content of this post, please email info@katenasser.com for permission and guidelines. Thank you for respecting intellectual capital.


Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™, delivers coaching, consulting, training, and keynotes on leading change, employee engagement, teamwork, and delivering the ultimate customer service. She turns interaction obstacles into interpersonal success. See this site for workshop outlines, keynote footage, and customer results.

 

 

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Silence: When Golden, When Not? People Skills global Twitter chat topic.


WHEN/WHERE: Join us Sunday Feb 8th, 2015 on Twitter at 10AM ET. Hashtag: #peopleskills


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When is Silence Golden? When Is It Not?

Join us Sunday Feb. 8th 10am ET to explore when is silence golden and when is it not.

People have always had different views of the value of silence and different comfort levels with it. Now with so much technology in use, we see people’s views about silence more publicly. Silence affects interaction, our lives, and our work. We will explore it in this week’s #Peopleskills global Twitter chat.



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Silence – When is it golden and when is it not?

As we approach this Sunday’s people skills global Twitter chat (#peopleskills), let’s think about the value of silence and its use and misuse.

Some questions to get us thinking in advance:

  • What does silence bring to the world?
  • Sometimes silence is one way to avoid trouble. Does it ever become the trouble?
  • Silence seems to mean different things to different people. Why?
  • What does silence do to you or for you?
  • Traditional belief: “Children should be seen and not heard.” What were the results of this belief?
  • In the face of injustice, silence is ________________.
  • When is silence golden and when is it not?
  • How/when do great leaders use silence?
  • Can a leader’s silence cause trouble? Y/N How/How not?
  • How do we find balance between silence and verbal interaction?



These are just some questions to get us thinking. Actual questions will post live during the chat.


Bring your experience, curiosity, a beverage, and join the community on Sunday Feb. 8th 10am ET to explore when is it good to be silent and when is it not.


I also invite you to continue this chat by joining the Google+ People Skills Community, The Facebook Group People Skills That Really Matter and the LinkedIn Group People Skills Succeed to be a part of all the people skills discussions everyday 24×7. Get your people skills community member badge here.



Shout Out of Gratitude

My gratitude to all who participate and grow the people skills global community on Twitter (#peopleskills), Google+, LinkedIn, and Facebook. We welcome your suggestions for topics, offers to co-host, and most especially your diverse insights.

Continued thanks to generous chat moderators Chantal Bechervaise, Dave Moore, Hoda Maalouf, Tracy Shroyer, Jandis Price and Tom Rhodes for their time and contributions.






Hope you will all join people skills global Twitter chat (#peopleskills) this Sunday Feb. 8th 2015, 10am ET/7am PT about silence.

Everyone is welcome! We have only one rule in People Skills Global Chat: Respect for all even when we disagree.






TIP: If you have never been in a Twitter chat, you may find it helpful to log on to Tweetchat.com, or Twubs.com and enter hashtag #peopleskills. Sign in to your Twitter account. The venue will insert the hashtag on each of your tweets and you will see all the tweets on one screen. Other tools available are Tchat.io, Hootsuite and TweetDeck.

I am the founder and host of the chat and will be happy to answer any questions you have in advance: Email me.


Connect with you this Sun. Feb. 8th, 2015, in #peopleskills global Twitter chat 10am ET on silence – when is it golden and when is it not.


Until then, as always, I wish you bonds of happiness and success!

From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™

©2015 Kate Nasser, CAS, Inc. Somerville, NJ. I appreciate your sharing the link to this post on your social streams. However, if you want to re-post or republish the content of this post, please email info@katenasser.com for permission and guidelines. Thank you for respecting intellectual capital.


Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™, delivers coaching, consulting, training, and keynotes on leading change, employee engagement, teamwork, and delivering the ultimate customer service. She turns interaction obstacles into interpersonal success. See this site for workshop outlines, keynote footage, and customer results.

 

 

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People Skills Success Radar: 9 Hidden Places to Find Your Empathy

It takes great people skills to succeed in business and it takes empathy to have great people skills. Have you discovered the full extent of your empathy? Without empathy — understanding and feeling what others are feeling — you fail to build trust and true connection.



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People Skills Success Radar: 9 Hidden Places to Find Your Empathy

Find your empathy to lead and engage employees, work with teammates, collaborate on projects, and succeed with customers. Give it even in the toughest moments. Your people skills success radar will help you find it.



Here is where empathy often hides:

  1. In what you are afraid to be. When people want to be seen as tough and strong, empathy hides to protect that image. Release and give your empathy. It shows that you are truly secure in who you are and confident enough to care for others. Inner strength is your billboard not fake toughness.



  2. In what you never received. Your empathy hides behind your unconscious scar of not receiving any. Find your empathy there and give it to others. It is the best way to get empathy and remove your scar.


  3. In the fear of failure. When people are afraid they will fail, they sometimes focus too much on themselves. Their fear hides their empathy. Uncover your empathy to uncover people skills success in business.


  4. In the myth that empathy makes others weak. Feeling what others feel doesn’t make them weak. Connection lifts people up. Your empathy makes them stronger as you light another way to success.


  5. In a logical focus. People who find comfort in logic — and discomfort in feelings — bury their empathy underneath analysis. Dig it up. Empathize before you analyze. It doesn’t bury you in feelings. Empathy is the connection before the solution. It is the secret to people skills success.



  6. Behind a wall of mistrust. When people are stung by an emotional manipulator, they sometimes put up walls to future connection. They don’t want to empathize and be stung by anyone again. Don’t hide your pain behind the wall. Call the stingers what they are — stinkers! Then share your empathy with the rest of the wonderful caring people in your world. Otherwise, the stinkers hide your people skills success behind the wall forever.


  7. In the wrong definition of empathy. Empathy doesn’t mean you agree with others. It simply says: “You matter, we matter, this matters, let’s find a solution.” You can empathize with someone’s feelings and yet not agree with their reasoning, conclusion, or solution. Share your empathy first to help them see a different view.


  8. In a judgmental ego. “I told you so” and “Everything that happened to you is your own fault” scream out your weakness. Quite ironic since these statements attempt to focus on others’ weakness! Silence your judgmental ego w/ a more powerful force — empathy. Then watch the magical power of connection bring you success.



  9. In a vengeful spirit. If you live a get even life, your empathy and success have difficulty living there too. And few will want to be there with you. Employees, colleagues, teammates, and definitely customers will keep their distance. Replace vengeance with forgiveness and move forward. Your empathy — not vengeance — will bring you people skills success.


Work and live the most basic human truth, success comes through connection. Empathy brings the magical power of connection to life. Find and share your empathy for people skills success.



What would you add to the list above? Is there a #10?



Let’s explore empathy in workshops with your teams and boost teamwork and business success!


From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™

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What Happens When Tough Leaders Show Empathy?

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Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™, delivers coaching, consulting, training, and keynotes on leading change, employee engagement, teamwork, and delivering the ultimate customer service. She turns interaction obstacles into interpersonal success. See this site for workshop outlines, keynote footage, and customer results.

 

 

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Trust Leadership Employee Engagement – People Skills global Twitter chat topic.

WHEN/WHERE: Join us Sunday Jan. 25th, 2015 on Twitter at 10AM ET. Hashtag: #peopleskills


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Trust Leadership Employee Engagement – What Breeds What?

Join us Sunday Jan. 25th 10am ET on the relationships between trust leadership employee engagement. So much is assumed about it. So much is written about it. Yet in the end, how can leaders forge ahead to lead and engage well?


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Trust Leadership Employee Engagement – How Do They Connect?

Although many people have worked with leaders they did not trust, it is not a great work life. It also does not produce maximum contribution and optimal results. Thus we will explore the connection between trust leadership employee engagement in our #Peopleskills global Twitter chat.

Here are some questions to get us thinking in advance:

  • Have you ever left a job because you didn’t trust your direct leader?
  • At work, what impact does trusting/mistrusting the leaders have?
  • How do you decide if you trust your leader?
  • What behaviors do leaders exhibit that build/break trust?
  • If you had to pick ONE attribute/trait that builds trust, which one would you pick?
  • Is there a connection between employee appreciation and the trust employees have in the leaders? Pls. explain.
  • How do *you define employee engagement?
  • What affect does trust have on employee engagement?
  • What should leaders do to make their people feel like insiders & increase their engagement?
  • Humble leaders are more trusted. Ag/Disagree Why?
  • What advice would you offer new leaders on how to build trust?
  • What role do great people skills play in leadership, trust, and employee engagement?



These are just some questions to get us thinking. Actual questions will post live during the chat.


Bring your experience, curiosity, a beverage, and join the community on Sunday Jan. 25th, 10am ET to offer your views on trust leadership employee engagement.


I also invite you to continue this chat by joining the Google+ People Skills Community, The Facebook Group People Skills That Really Matter and the LinkedIn Group People Skills Succeed to be a part of all the people skills discussions everyday 24×7. Get your people skills community member badge here.



Shout Out of Gratitude

My gratitude to all who participate and grow the people skills global community on Twitter (#peopleskills), Google+, LinkedIn, and Facebook. We welcome your suggestions for topics, offers to co-host, and most especially your diverse insights.

Continued thanks to generous chat moderators Chantal Bechervaise, Dave Moore, Hoda Maalouf, Tracy Shroyer, Jandis Price and Tom Rhodes for their time and contributions.






Hope you will all join people skills global Twitter chat (#peopleskills) this Sunday Jan. 25th, 2015, 10am ET/7am PT on trust leadership employee engagement.

Everyone is welcome! We have only one rule in People Skills Global Chat: Respect for all even when we disagree.






TIP: If you have never been in a Twitter chat, you may find it helpful to log on to Tweetchat.com, or Twubs.com and enter hashtag #peopleskills. Sign in to your Twitter account. The venue will insert the hashtag on each of your tweets and you will see all the tweets on one screen. Other tools available are Tchat.io, Hootsuite and TweetDeck.

I am the founder and host of the chat and will be happy to answer any questions you have in advance: Email me.


Connect with you this Sun. Jan. 25th, 2015, in #peopleskills global Twitter chat 10am ET on trust leadership employee engagement.


Until then, as always, I wish you bonds of happiness and success!

From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™

©2015 Kate Nasser, CAS, Inc. Somerville, NJ. I appreciate your sharing the link to this post on your social streams. However, if you want to re-post or republish the content of this post, please email info@katenasser.com for permission and guidelines. Thank you for respecting intellectual capital.


Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™, delivers coaching, consulting, training, and keynotes on leading change, employee engagement, teamwork, and delivering the ultimate customer service. She turns interaction obstacles into interpersonal success. See this site for workshop outlines, keynote footage, and customer results.

 

 

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Empathy and Integrity: A Must to Rebuild Customer Trust


Customers make a leap of faith when they first buy from a company. The trust they initially offer is a request for a respectful human bond.

When they are dissatisfied, do you respond with empathy and integrity? A broken trust can spread throughout social media and damage your business and your brand. Empathy and integrity can prevent that. It RSVPs the customers with the respect they want and deserve. Here’s why it works and how to do it simply and consistently.


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Empathy and Integrity: Keys to Rebuild Trust w/ Customers



Empathy and integrity rebuild customer trust because it stops the customer from feeling like a fool. They don’t have to doubt their choice nor their future decisions. They can trust their own judgment, trust you, and stay with you and your brand.


Empathy and Integrity: 5 Keys to Rebuild Customer Trust

  1. Empathize before you analyze. Once you hear that the customer is dissatisfied, give empathy to manage the emotion. Then move on to analyzing how to solve it. Analyzing before empathizing is one of the most common and worst mistakes you can make. While you are analyzing, the customer’s mistrust is building. They are wondering if you will care about them or will they feel like a fool for selecting your company?


  2. Transform with listening don’t defend with details. After you have offered empathy, wow the customer with more great listening. You will uncover the expectations you missed and how to please them now. If instead you defend your actions with details, the customers will think you are telling them you are right and they are wrong. Details seem like a defense of your ego. Which do you care more about — your ego or them?


  3. Apologize with no ifs or buts. Two words that destroy a heartfelt apology and trust are IF and BUT. “We are sorry IF we fell short.” The customers have already told you that you fell short. The word IF waffles with a gross lack of integrity. Why would they trust you now? “We are sorry but …” also cancels out the apology. No empathy, no integrity, no trust. It’s just that simple.

  4. Fix the problem and prevent the repeats. Follow through with the littlest details and communicate throughout the organization to prevent a repeat failure. When you fall short with a customer, they see a crack in your company’s effectiveness and they lose trust. If you prevent new or bigger cracks, you re-secure the trust.

  5. Show urgency. The longer you take to respond to customers, the faster their trust erodes. Even if it’s going to take time to fix the problem, respond early and keep the customer informed. Delays and lack of communication are the vacuums that suck customer trust away permanently.



It doesn’t take a huge mistake to dissolve customer trust. Regardless of the issue, view it as the customer. Empathize before you analyze, deliver what you promise, and rebuild trust with unparalleled integrity. It speaks volumes to the customer and to those they speak to!


As a customer, what would you add to the list above?



From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™

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This Week’s People Skills Topic in Global Twitter Chat is Patience!

WHEN/WHERE: Join us Sunday Dec. 21, 2014 on Twitter at 10AM ET. Hashtag: #peopleskills


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People Skills Topic in Chat This Week is Patience

Join us Sunday Dec. 21st 10am ET to discuss the people skills topic of patience. As we near the holidays, we can practice our patience over and over! My wonderful co-host for this great topic is Jessica Roberts @connect2life. Thanks Jessica for suggesting this very timely holiday topic.


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Join Us for People Skills Topic of Patience

Patience is a people skills topic we often take for granted. We only think about it when others lose patience with us or when we feel ours slipping away. Let’s spend our chat exploring patience in a more pro-active way.

Some questions to get us thinking in advance:

  • Patience is ____________.
  • Are some people born more patient than others? Is it inborn or learned?
  • Is patience a strength or a weakness? Pls. explain.
  • What taxes your patience?
  • When have you found it easiest to be patient?
  • How are empathy and patience related if at all?
  • What’s the difference between being patient and being apathetic?
  • Does patience feed or delay success?
  • Patient leaders ___________.
  • How important is patience with customers?
  • What else do we lose when we lose our patience?
  • How does age relate to patience if at all?
  • How do people skills increase or decrease patience?



These are just some questions to get us thinking. Actual questions will post live during the chat.


Bring your experience, curiosity, a beverage, and join the community on Sunday Dec. 21st, 10am ET in for people skills topic of patience in Twitter chat (hashtag: #peopleskills).


I also invite you to continue this chat by joining the Google+ People Skills Community, The Facebook Group People Skills That Really Matter and the LinkedIn Group People Skills Succeed to be a part of all the people skills discussions everyday 24×7. Get your people skills community member badge here.



Shout Out of Gratitude

My gratitude to all who participate and grow the people skills global community on Twitter (#peopleskills), Google+, LinkedIn, and Facebook. We welcome your suggestions for topics, offers to co-host, and most especially your diverse insights.

Special thanks to this week’s co-host Jessica Roberts @connect2life. Continued thanks to generous chat moderators Chantal Bechervaise, Dave Moore, Hoda Maalouf, Tracy Shroyer and Tom Rhodes for their time and contributions.






Hope you will all join our People Skills Chat on Twitter (#peopleskills) this Sunday Dec. 21, 2014, 10am ET/7am PT to share your insights and perspective the people skills topic of patience.

Everyone is welcome! We have only one rule in People Skills Global Chat: Respect for all even when we disagree.






TIP: If you have never been in a Twitter chat, you may find it helpful to log on to Tweetchat.com, or Twubs.com and enter hashtag #peopleskills. Sign in to your Twitter account. The venue will insert the hashtag on each of your tweets and you will see all the tweets on one screen. Other tools available are Tchat.io, Hootsuite and TweetDeck.

I am the founder and host of the chat and will be happy to answer any questions you have in advance: Email me.


Connect with you this Sun. Dec. 21, 2014, in global #peopleskills Twitter chat 10am ET to explore the people skills topic of patience.


Until then, as always, I wish you bonds of happiness and success!

From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™

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This Week’s #Peopleskills Chat Topic – Moving From Conflict to Collaboration

WHEN/WHERE: Join us Sunday Dec. 7, 2014 on Twitter at 10AM ET. Hashtag: #peopleskills


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Conflict to Collaboration: The Journey to a Better Place

Join us Sunday Dec. 7th 10am ET to discuss conflict vs. collaboration.

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How Can People Move From Conflict to Collaboration Sooner?

Throughout the world, conflict rages on. It makes me wonder, what does it take to either prevent conflict or move from conflict to collaboration sooner?

Some questions to get us thinking in advance:

  • Conflict – how do you define it?
  • Why does conflict erupt? How does it happen?
  • Collaboration – what image does it bring to your mind?
  • Opinion: Is it possible to accomplish the same things w/ collaboration that we could w/ conflict?
  • “Conflict is a good thing. It toughens people up.” Ag/ Disagree? Why is this such a popular belief?
  • Does society today promote bullying by saying conflict is good? Pls. explain.
  • Why do some people see collaborators as weak?
  • “Speak (walk) softly and carry a big stick.” ~Theodore Roosevelt Why/why not?
  • What role does humility play (if at all) in conflict and/or collaboration?
  • What does it take to move from conflict to collaboration?
  • What will it take to make collaboration and care more desirable than conflict?
  • How can people skills move people from conflict to collaboration sooner?



These are just some questions to get us thinking. Actual questions will post live during the chat.


Bring your experience, curiosity, a beverage, and join the community on Sunday Dec. 7, 10am ET in People Skills Chat on Twitter (hashtag: #peopleskills). We will discuss moving from conflict to collaboration.


I also invite you to continue this chat by joining the Google+ People Skills Community, The Facebook Group People Skills That Really Matter and the LinkedIn Group People Skills Succeed to be a part of all the people skills discussions everyday 24×7. Get your people skills community member badge here.



Shout Out of Gratitude

My gratitude to all who participate and grow the people skills global community on Twitter (#peopleskills), Google+, LinkedIn, and Facebook. We welcome your suggestions for topics, offers to co-host, and most especially your diverse insights.

Continued thanks to generous chat moderators Chantal Bechervaise, Dave Moore, Hoda Maalouf, Tracy Shroyer and Tom Rhodes for their time and contributions.






Hope you will all join our People Skills Chat on Twitter (#peopleskills) this Sunday Dec. 7, 2014, 10am ET/7am PT to share your insights and perspective moving from conflict to collaboration.

Everyone is welcome! We have only one rule in People Skills Global Chat: Respect for all even when we disagree.






TIP: If you have never been in a Twitter chat, you may find it helpful to log on to Tweetchat.com, or Twubs.com and enter hashtag #peopleskills. Sign in to your Twitter account. The venue will insert the hashtag on each of your tweets and you will see all the tweets on one screen. Other tools available are Tchat.io, Hootsuite and TweetDeck.

I am the founder and host of the chat and will be happy to answer any questions you have in advance: Email me.


Connect with you this Sun. Dec. 7, 2014, in global #peopleskills Twitter chat 10am ET to explore moving from conflict to collaboration.


Until then, as always, I wish you bonds of happiness and success!

From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™

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This Week’s #Peopleskills Chat Topic – Generosity Gratitude Happiness.

WHEN/WHERE: Join us Sunday Nov. 30, 2014 on Twitter at 10AM ET. Hashtag: #peopleskills


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Generosity Gratitude Happiness — Are They Actually Related?

Join us Sunday Nov. 30th 10am ET to share your personal perspective and insights on “generosity gratitude happiness”.

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The True Effects and Connection of Generosity Gratitude Happiness

A recent article in the Washington Post reported on research suggesting generous people are happier overall. These are intriguing findings. If that’s true, why don’t we see even more giving and giving thanks in this world?

Some questions to get us thinking in advance:

  • The spirit of generosity — what is it and where are its roots?
  • When does generosity mean the most to you?
  • There is no exercise better for the heart than reaching down and lifting people up. ~John Holmes Ag/Disagree Why?
  • Can you give too much? Have you ever regretted being generous?
  • What exactly is gratitude?
  • Can people be happy without feeling and showing gratitude? How/why not?
  • How do generosity and gratitude make you feel?
  • Opinion: Are generous people happier or are happier people more generous? Pls. explain.
  • How do gratitude and contentment differ, if at all?
  • What effect does gratitude have on ambition? What about generosity?
  • Generosity and gratitude – are they connected to abundance? (Thx @AJManik for this question.)
  • Overall, how do generosity and gratitude impact our interactions at work and home?

These are just some questions to get us thinking. Actual questions will post live during the chat.



So bring your desire to help our youth, your experience, a beverage, and join the community on Sunday Nov. 30, 10am ET in People Skills Chat on Twitter (hashtag: #peopleskills). Let’s discuss “generosity gratitude happiness” in ways we never have before.


I also invite you to continue this chat by joining the Google+ People Skills Community, The Facebook Group People Skills That Really Matter and the LinkedIn Group People Skills Succeed to be a part of all the people skills discussions everyday 24×7. Get your people skills community member badge here.



Shout Out of Gratitude

My gratitude to all who participate and grow the people skills global community on Twitter (#peopleskills), Google+, LinkedIn, and Facebook. We welcome your suggestions for topics, offers to co-host, and most especially your diverse insights.

Continued thanks to generous chat moderators Chantal Bechervaise, Dave Moore, Hoda Maalouf, Tracy Shroyer and Tom Rhodes for their time and contributions.






Hope you will all join our People Skills Chat on Twitter (#peopleskills) this Sunday Nov. 30, 2014, 10am ET/7am PT to share your insights and perspective on “generosity gratitude happiness.”

Everyone is welcome! We have only one rule in People Skills Global Chat: Respect for all even when we disagree.






TIP: If you have never been in a Twitter chat, you may find it helpful to log on to Tweetchat.com, or Twubs.com and enter hashtag #peopleskills. Sign in to your Twitter account. The venue will insert the hashtag on each of your tweets and you will see all the tweets on one screen. Other tools available are Tchat.io, Hootsuite and TweetDeck.

I am the founder and host of the chat and will be happy to answer any questions you have in advance: Email me.


Connect with you this Sun. Nov. 30, 2014, in global #peopleskills Twitter chat 10am ET to explore “generosity gratitude happiness.”


Until then, as always, I wish you bonds of happiness and success!

From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™

©2014 Kate Nasser, CAS, Inc. Somerville, NJ. I appreciate your sharing the link to this post on your social streams. However, if you want to re-post or republish the content of this post, please email info@katenasser.com for permission and guidelines. Thank you for respecting intellectual capital.


Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™, delivers coaching, consulting, training, and keynotes on leading change, employee engagement, teamwork, and delivering the ultimate customer service. She turns interaction obstacles into interpersonal success. See this site for workshop outlines, keynote footage, and customer results.

 

 

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Leadership Humility is This Week’s Chat Topic!

WHEN/WHERE: Join us Sunday Nov. 23, 2014 on Twitter at 10AM ET. Hashtag: #peopleskills


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Leadership Humility: Strength or Weakness?

Picture humble leaders. What do you see? What are they doing? Would you want to work with them? Join us Sunday Nov. 23rd 10am ET to share your personal perspective and deeper view of leadership humility.

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Leadership Humility: A Deeper View

Despite shifts in the definition of leadership, leadership humility is still widely debated. Does it come across as weak? Does it breed less or more business success? Do all people respect a humble leader?

Some questions to get us thinking in advance:

  • Leadership Humility: Clear connection or oxymoron?
  • Can humble people show their greatness to get promoted?
  • What is the underlying logic of leadership humility?
  • Does humility evoke trust or suspicion from other people? Why?
  • Is humility a part of great leadership? Why don’t we see more of it?
  • How do humble leaders behave?
  • How does leadership humility affect employee engagement?
  • Who produces more leaders – humble leaders or non-humble leaders? Why?
  • Is leadership humility more common in some cultures than in others?
  • How can people skills show humility in a positive light?

These are just some questions to get us thinking. Actual questions will post live during the chat.



So bring your desire to help our youth, your experience, a beverage, and join the community on Sunday Nov. 23, 10am ET in People Skills Chat on Twitter (hashtag: #peopleskills). Let’s dig into leadership humility more deeply and see what we discover and learn from each other.


I also invite you to continue this chat by joining the Google+ People Skills Community, The Facebook Group People Skills That Really Matter and the LinkedIn Group People Skills Succeed to be a part of all the people skills discussions everyday 24×7. Get your people skills community member badge here.



Shout Out of Gratitude

My gratitude to all who participate and grow the people skills global community on Twitter (#peopleskills), Google+, LinkedIn, and Facebook. We welcome your suggestions for topics, offers to co-host, and most especially your diverse insights.

Continued thanks to generous chat moderators Chantal Bechervaise, Dave Moore, Hoda Maalouf, Tracy Shroyer and Tom Rhodes for their time and contributions.






Hope you will all join our People Skills Chat on Twitter (#peopleskills) this Sunday Nov. 23, 2014, 10am ET/7am PT to share your insights and perspective on leadership humility.

Everyone is welcome! We have only one rule in People Skills Global Chat: Respect for all even when we disagree.






TIP: If you have never been in a Twitter chat, you may find it helpful to log on to Tweetchat.com, or Twubs.com and enter hashtag #peopleskills. Sign in to your Twitter account. The venue will insert the hashtag on each of your tweets and you will see all the tweets on one screen. Other tools available are Tchat.io, Hootsuite and TweetDeck.

I am the founder and host of the chat and will be happy to answer any questions you have in advance: Email me.


Connect with you this Sun. Nov. 23, 2014, in global #peopleskills Twitter chat 10am EST to explore leadership humility.


Until then, as always, I wish you bonds of happiness and success!

From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™

©2014 Kate Nasser, CAS, Inc. Somerville, NJ. I appreciate your sharing the link to this post on your social streams. However, if you want to re-post or republish the content of this post, please email info@katenasser.com for permission and guidelines. Thank you for respecting intellectual capital.


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Employee Appreciation: 3 Ways to Get It!

Do you feel unappreciated at work? That doesn’t mean people don’t appreciate you. It means they aren’t expressing appreciation to you.


It’s an important distinction. If you believe others don’t appreciate you, you can lose motivation. You can start to question your worth at work. You might even spiral into negativity that hurts other parts of your life. STOP!


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Employee Appreciation: Be a Buoy to Be Appreciated. Image by Sweet Dreamz Design via Flickr.

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You can stay resilient. Simply learn these things about employee appreciation:

  • When people are most likely to express it
  • What stops them from expressing it
  • How to get more of it at work!



Employee Appreciation: When Do Leaders Express It

For many leaders, appreciation is an emotional response. They don’t show employee appreciation for tasks completed. They appreciate you when your actions fill their voids.

People express appreciation when you help them advance or ease their pain — when you are their buoy!



Leaders give appreciation when they have a need that you fill. Why? Because it is at that point they are aware of their vulnerability. They feel the need keenly enough to show employee appreciation. To get appreciation at work, be a buoy of resilience for others.


Employee Appreciation: 9 Reasons Leaders Don’t Show It

  1. Some people are very uncomfortable expressing positive emotion until your caring actions move them beyond their discomfort.
  2. Some leaders were mentored by leaders who thought emotion was unproductive. They live what they were taught.
  3. The organizational culture is not one of gratitude.
  4. Some leaders live by the old rule: No news is good news. They believe you are being paid to do a job.
  5. They believe that you know you are appreciated because you were hired.
  6. Your leader may be a high introvert who keeps much inside.
  7. Their leader doesn’t express appreciation to them and thus they have no motivation to show appreciation to you.
  8. Some people are intrinsically motivated and need little appreciation. They assume everyone is like them.
  9. Leaders who are high drivers focus on end results to the exclusion of everything else.


Employee Appreciation: 3 Ways to Get It!

Use your natural talents and interests to do for others what they can’t or don’t like to do.

  • Complete your boss. An executive admin reported to me that her boss hates to write. She loves to write. He gives her his key thoughts and she writes the document or presentation. He appreciates it and says so! She is his buoy!

  • Lift up your teammate. Teammates empathized with a teammate struggling with a serious personal life issue and filled the void when that teammate was not at work. They buoyed their teammate. The teammate expressed sincere appreciation.

  • Share your talents regardless of your title. One woman reported she is always good in a crisis. She’s a pressure player as the old saying goes. Now people turn to her at crunch time. She is a buoy! She receives appreciation at work for this even though she is not the official leader.



During a recent keynote, I said…

Instead of seeking appreciation for your job tasks, get appreciated for your natural talents.

Someone answered … That still means they don’t value our job function.

I replied: Job functions become extinct. Your talents don’t and won’t. Buoy people with your talents and you will get appreciation.

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Career Appreciation: Be a Buoy to Be More Appreciated at Work




It’s far better to rely on your talents to be appreciated than on a job function whose value changes with time.


Be a buoy. Support others. Make them resilient. Keep them afloat. Fill the void with your talents. This is how you will get appreciation at work.



Which talents do others appreciate in you?



From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™


Related Posts:
25 Incredible Talents That Get Appreciated at Work
Leaders, Employee Engagement is Uniquely Personal

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Caring Words: No Cost & High Return in Business


Caring Words Cost Nothing: Image is a poster with those words.

Caring Words Cost Nothing. Image by Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™




Don’t mistake caring words in business as weak, risky, or beating around the bush. Caring words cost nothing and create infinite possibilities. Their power comes in what they do and don’t do.

Caring words & caring tone of voice …

  • Build trust.
  • Develop relationships between strangers.
  • Open closed minds with empathy & trust.
  • Strengthen relationships to ride through storms together.




Caring words & caring tone of voice don’t …

  • Insert scars into important business agendas.
  • Trigger defensiveness that slows down success.
  • Foment resentment that overshadows the true business purpose.
  • Create walls that obstruct & maybe doom future opportunities.




Caring words & caring tone of voice are emotional intelligence in action.

  • They are based on respect for all humans even in disagreement.
  • They require a positive self-image that doesn’t preach to others.
  • They call for a courageous choice of giving before you receive anything.


“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; deeply loving someone gives you courage.” ~Lao Tzu via Goodreads Quotes


“Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” ~Mother Teresa via Goodreads Quotes


Leaders, use caring words and tone to inspire, engage, and buoy employees! Hire employees with the emotional intelligence and desire to care for others. Teamwork and collaboration ascend to new heights. Customer experience soars to loyalty.



From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™

Related Posts:
People Skills Missteps: Not So Friendly, Friendly Advice
3 Steps to Overcome Bias in Business
Emotionally Intelligent Teamwork: 10 Ways to Work w/ Immature Teammates

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Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™, delivers coaching, consulting, training, and keynotes on leading change, employee engagement, teamwork, and delivering the ultimate customer service. She turns interaction obstacles into interpersonal success. See this site for workshop outlines, keynote footage, and customer results.

 

 

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Handling Immature Teammates, Bosses, and Family is this week’s chat topic.

WHEN/WHERE: Join us Sunday Nov. 9, 2014 on Twitter at 10AM EST. Hashtag: #peopleskills


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Handling Immature Teammates, Bosses, & Family

People develop different levels of emotional intelligence and maturity. What happens when you must interact with people less mature than you?



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Handling Immature Teammates, Bosses, and Family!

Handling immature teammates and bosses — not to mention family — presents some special challenges. JOIN us Sunday 10am EST in #peopleskills global Twitter chat to share ideas and tips on this universal predicament.

Some questions to get us thinking in advance:

  • How do you define immaturity? Is it purely a matter of comparison?
  • What are some mature people skills behaviors and what does it feel like to be mature?
  • What emotions and conditions trigger immature behavior?
  • How is immaturity different from free spirited fun?
  • Is maturity a straight line path of growth or does it come and go?
  • Which immature behaviors undermine teamwork?
  • How would you respond to immature teammate behavior?
  • How do immature bosses/leaders behave & how do they impact those they lead?
  • What can employees do to help their boss/leader mature?
  • How do great people skills help you respond maturely to immature behavior?

These are just some questions to get us thinking. Actual questions will post live during the chat.



So bring your personal perspective, your experience, a beverage, and join the community on Sunday Nov. 9, 10am EST in People Skills Chat on Twitter (hashtag: #peopleskills). Share your experience, insight, and perspective on handling immature teammates, bosses and family.


I also invite you to continue this chat by joining the Google+ People Skills Community, The Facebook Group People Skills That Really Matter and the LinkedIn Group People Skills Succeed to be a part of all the people skills discussions everyday 24×7. Get your people skills community member badge here.



Shout Out of Gratitude

My gratitude to all who participate and grow the people skills global community on Twitter (#peopleskills), Google+, LinkedIn, and Facebook. We welcome your suggestions for topics, offers to co-host, and most especially your diverse insights.

Continued thanks to generous chat moderators Chantal Bechervaise, Dave Moore, Hoda Maalouf, Tracy Shroyer and Tom Rhodes for their time and contributions.






Hope you will all join our People Skills Chat on Twitter (#peopleskills) this Sunday Nov. 9, 2014, 10am EST/7am PST to share your insights, perspective, and experience on handling immature teammates, bosses, and family.

Everyone is welcome! We have only one rule in People Skills Global Chat: Respect for all even when we disagree.






TIP: If you have never been in a Twitter chat, you may find it helpful to log on to Tweetchat.com, or Twubs.com and enter hashtag #peopleskills. Sign in to your Twitter account. The venue will insert the hashtag on each of your tweets and you will see all the tweets on one screen. Other tools available are Tchat.io, Hootsuite and TweetDeck.

I am the founder and host of the chat and will be happy to answer any questions you have in advance: Email me.


Connect with you this Sun. Nov. 9, 2014, 10am EST to explore handling immature teammates in our #Peopleskills Global Twitter Chat.

Until then, as always, I wish you bonds of happiness and success!

From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™

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Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™, delivers coaching, consulting, training, and keynotes on leading change, employee engagement, teamwork, and delivering the ultimate customer service. She turns interaction obstacles into interpersonal success. See this site for workshop outlines, keynote footage, and customer results.

 

 

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