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Most leaders trigger change. Some are constantly pulling the trigger and often with disastrous results. If you are a leader who craves change, ask yourself:


Do you see change fatigue?

or

Think it’s all change resistance?



Leaders, Are You Confusing Change Fatigue & Change Resistance? Image by:Cayusa

I see a great deal of change resistance as I consult to organizations. Most leaders and consultants focus on this for it is the big challenge of moving an organization forward.


I also see some leaders whose leadership philosophy breeds change fatigue. They are either very high drivers or high idea generators and often quite unaware that they are pulling the trigger far too often.


They see change fatigue as just more change resistance and continue on unchanged (ironically enough) with the same leadership behaviors.


They also convince themselves that because their goal is success, the difference between change fatigue and change resistance is irrelevant. Quite the opposite is true.

Change resistance occurs when people are still committed to the organization albeit the current picture.



Change fatigue can sever their ability to be committed to the organization and redirect it to individual survival.



Moreover, change fatigue can neutralize your strongest proponents of change — those that aren’t resisting. Even they feel lost, disconnected, and incapable of achievement. Once this engine of change is shot, you and your organization can achieve very little.

Change fatigue will most likely occur when your leadership vision is driven by the treasure hunt syndrome or when your vision constantly changes.

The leaders and teams that report to you barely start to work on one initiative or direction when you reset and redirect. Although some of this happens in every organization, as a leadership style it can leave all exasperated, fatigued and disconnected.

The biggest risk of change fatigue is that organizational performance suffers.
As a leader you are focusing on future success while the floor you are standing on is sagging beneath you. The new one you are trying to lay has poor supports as well.

  • Your direct reports begin to delegate some of their responsibilities to their teams whether they are skilled or experienced enough to handle it or not. The outcomes are substandard.
  • Collaboration and teamwork erode because the current path becomes a grapevine of misunderstandings.
  • Their exasperation undermines their respect and trust for you and your leadership.



Change Loving Leaders — Prevent Change Fatigue!

  1. Build the culture that goes with your vision. If you as a leader crave high innovation and change, then inspire a fun, creative, learn-from-mistakes type culture.

    Do you encourage all the employees to noodle new ideas? Participating in creativity breeds a more positive feeling about change.

    Or are you mistakenly reserving that privilege for yourself or a select few and holding all others responsible for the implementation and delivery? High driver leaders are prone to this misstep.


  2. Ensure you understand what it takes to implement. Employees who shine at implementation and operation must see that your vision sees the reality of effort needed. You need these employees that can actually plan, build, or coordinate the building of those new processes, products or services. Do they see that you value and respect their talent for staying the course to the end to make these changes happen?

  3. Procure extra resources to implement all your new ideas or make clear what can truly be pushed aside. If the myriad of ideas and changes you envision are to happen, then back fill the operations with additional contractors to truly allow the full time staff to work on the exciting new changes.

  4. Communicate with the employees not to the employees. That does not mean they can set any vision they wish. Yet, the dialogue helps you to see a clearer picture of what’s needed for innovation and gives them a better understanding of what is possible going forward.



Knowing the difference between change resistance and change fatigue strengthens your success quotient.

  • - Fatigue is something you cause which can even crush the spirit of your change proponents.
  • - Resistance occurs within employees. You can ease and eliminate it with great communication, clear vision, and active employee engagement.
  • Address change resistance — prevent change fatigue. Fatigue is a pricey diversion with long lasting effects.



    From my professional experience to your success,
    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™

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    Leaders, unchecked passive aggressive behavior in the workplace impacts the dynamics and potential success of teams. Those affected feel used, manipulated, and disrespected.

    Passive aggressive is less direct not less aggressive.

    It is just as hostile as straight out aggression and can obstruct both morale and results. It erodes a key component of teamwork and engagement — trust.

    It can disengage employees from each other IF we allow it. How do we become accomplices to passive aggressive team members?

    Leaders, Are You an Accomplice To Passive Aggressive Team Members Image by:korafotomorgana

    The Pattern

    Spot the pattern of passive aggressive behavior in order to eliminate its ruinous effect on your team’s success.

    Passive aggressive team members will:

    1. Interrupt another team member who is speaking to us with a quick “sorry” yet no real acknowledgment of the other person’s presence. Or they will smile and say to the other person “You don’t mind do you?” They cover lack of manners with fake manners.
    2. Restate exactly what another team member just said as if it’s their own idea.
    3. Use subtle sarcasm against another team member and call it humor.
    4. Intellectualize instead of apologize. When faced with evidence of their bad behavior, they are known to say “I wonder why I did that?” instead of “I am terribly sorry.” Or they repeat their bad behavior even with apologies.
    5. Use neutral statements instead of true empathy. Effective team members support each other. Passive aggressive team members appear to support others. Facing a distraught team member, a passive aggressive would say something like “Yes, it is difficult, isn’t it?” A supportive team member would more likely say, “How can I help? Let’s look at it and find a solution.”
    6. Hold others to a very high standard of behavior and call them on it publicly. “Well you wouldn’t want to be known as the one who didn’t help out, would you?”
    7. Use apparently logical reasons to undermine others’ success — and then ask them if they mind. Example: As requested, a team member prepared a presentation for the next team meeting on a technology they were developing for all to use. The passive aggressive team member monopolized the meeting with discussion and at the end of the meeting said: Oh we won’t have time for your presentation today. Does it bother you?”


    The Impact

    Mistrust, anger, resentment, and disengagement are the most damaging impacts of passive aggressive behavior on the organization and its results. If we as leaders do nothing to prevent it or cure it, team members begin to mistrust us as well.

    Strong driver type leaders become an accomplice to this behavior with their sole focus on results. They dismiss outcries of passive aggressive behavior with: “Just focus on the work.”

    High amiable type leaders, who love harmony in relationships, often dismiss passive aggressive “Oh they didn’t mean anything by it.” They are now accomplice to this damaging behavior.

    Strong analytic leaders may overlook the passive aggressive behavior claiming they don’t have enough data to prove it’s happening. They become accomplices through the misnomer that if you can’t measure it, it doesn’t exist. A ridiculous tenet.

    High expressive leaders are so connected into the exchange of information they become accomplices by not seeing the manner of expression.

    The Solution

    1. Check our own behavior. Ensure that you are not passive aggressive. Team members model the leader.
    2. Ask yourself, am I afraid of conflict? That doesn’t mean that you are passive aggressive yet you are at a high risk of not addressing it. Get coaching on overcoming your fear of conflict and you become a far better leader!
    3. Have the entire team develop a list of high performance team member behaviors. Clear expectations of behavior are one way to develop a culture of positive interaction and give everyone a mechanism for discussing negative behaviors.
    4. Provide training on how to disagree without being disagreeable. A team’s diverse opinions are its strength. The way they communicate is its lifeblood.
    5. Illustrate the difference between diplomacy and passive aggressive. Passive aggressives often mislabel their subtle behavior as tact when in truth it’s venom.
    6. Be willing to spot and address the behavior even in a top performer. Singular results only contribute a portion of success. Behavior impacts morale with accounts for much of success.
    7. Teach and use engaging meeting management techniques. Stop bad behavior in it’s tracks so all will fully engage as they feel valued and respected.
    8. Watch for and dismantle cliques. Not all cliques are passive aggressive. Yet many of them are and in any case are harmful to a positive team culture.

    As leaders we have an organizational responsibility to engage team members for positive morale and highest quality results.

    We also have an ethical responsibility to create a non-hostile environment where all receive basic respect and an opportunity to fully contribute.

    Passive aggressive behavior is a virus that can infect the team and kill results. Let’s prevent it or at least be the cure.




    Question: What other passive aggressive behaviors have you spotted and how have you handled them?


    From my professional experience to your success,
    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™

    Related Post: Leaders, A Pain Free Journey to Employee Accountability

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    Volumes are written on leaders’ key steps to leading change. When we list out all the steps, one blatant truth emerges from the fray:

    Leading Change Requires Networking Our Inspiration

    Leaders, Network Our Inspiration to Lead Change



    This statement might bring to mind lots of communication about the change, the reasons why, what’s in it for everyone, and the list goes on.

    Are you inspired?
    Yeh right. No one else will be either. Admittedly communication is critical to leading change. Yet communication is NOT the same as networking our inspiration.

    Networking those we lead includes:

    • Starting with mutual respect
    • Earning trust through the heart not just the head
    • Engaging their talents and their spirit thus
    • Building their change-ability to prepare for major shifts



    Networking inspiration must start early — the day we become leaders.


    Highly directive leaders who rarely engage their teams seem fake when suddenly networking inspiration to spur a major change. People don’t like being changed.

    Weak leaders who focus mostly on being liked also struggle with leading change. They have built personal connections based on neediness and their fear is palpable. There is little for others to trust in order to overcome the comfort of the status quo.

    We can effectively lead change when we have healthy inter-dependent connections to the team members as well as to the mission of the organization. This healthy balance of head and heart is the inspiration!

    The strength of a balanced leader absorbs employees’ fear allowing them to travel new roads unfettered by doubt.



    Earning Trust With the Heart & Head
    Long before major changes inch onto the horizon, team members are looking to see how we handle difficult situations. Some may be very mission related while still others will relate to team dynamics and morale.

    Showing them our clear heads in a crisis is a start. Developing their clear heads for change through coaching and empowerment is networking our inspiration!

    Reviewing data with them before a decision develops valuable critical thinking. Using our intuition and tapping theirs builds their change-ability!

      Consider that change involves dealing with the unknown. Invoking intuition gives everyone practice in grappling with grey areas and moving ahead with less than a full picture. With this practice, we network our inspiration and develop their change-ability long before a major change appears.

    When we handle individual performance issues, we act appropriately. When we also address team morale issues resulting from performance problems, we celebrate the value of morale in leading change. “Work it our yourselves” is abdication of our inspirational role. “Let’s work this out and create a model for maintaining great morale”, networks our inspiration!

    We lead change with inspiration; we succeed when we network the inspiration and build change-ability along the way.




    Question: Why do many leaders avoid the inspirational approach when it is so critical to leading change?


    From my professional experience to your success,
    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™


    This article was inspired by a Leadfromwithin professional development chat on Twitter founded and facilitated by executive coach Lolly Daskal. Thanks Lolly!

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    Some think that the greatest IT customer service challenge is the technical mindset of the team members. It isn’t. Most everyone who has the desire to deliver customer service can learn to do it well. I have trained thousands to do just that.

    CIOs, the biggest challenge continues to be blocked teamwork among the silos. Whether you have outsourced or off-shored your front line, brought it back in house (which is happening more and more), or always had it in house, teamwork among front line and other resolver groups is where your customer service improvements will surface.

    CIOs, IT Customer Service Threat is Blocked Teamwork Image by:eirikref

    CIOs, Resolve the Obstacles to Teamwork for IT Customer Service

    • Fake Hierarchies. One of the biggest mistakes IT made was naming support as Level I, Level II, Level III. It has created a fake hierarchy of importance. Although it described the flow chart of how problems are resolved, it minimized the importance of the front line. Customers hope the problem gets solved on the first call and yet the front line struggles to get knowledge and training.

      Many level II and III teams could share more knowledge with the front line for quicker problem resolution. Ask yourselves why they aren’t. The quick answer is time. That’s not the whole picture. Many times they don’t see them as teammates. They complain that the front line doesn’t do enough even when they have never seen how tough a job it is nor sat in those chairs.

      Suggestions:
      Boxer Day (have them shadow/switch roles), shared service levels, physical co-location, reporting into one leader, shared metrics on customer satisfaction, same tracking/ticketing system, team building sessions.


    • Politics. Every organization has them yet it can kill customer service and internal customer (employee) productivity. Nonetheless there are IT organizations withholding key productivity tools from the front line — like remote control — because of political jockeying for what groups have the most power. It neuters the front line effectiveness and leaves the customers thinking the front line is of no value. They begin calling up just to get a ticket number and pressuring the front line to make everything a priority one.

      Suggestion: Give the front line remote control to resolve more problems. Don’t turn the front line into ticket monkeys by yielding to power politics. Customers see pure routing centers as a block not a road to productivity.


    • The Deskside Bond. One hidden block to teamwork is the bond that deskside support team members have to their customers. As you centralize to a global service desk, customers continue to ask deskside onsite team members directly to come and help them. These team members struggle with how to get the customers to call the front line of service desk for problem resolution.

      Some resort to saying, just call them to get a ticket number rather than championing the skills and value of the front line. Moreover, you may have some team members who don’t think anyone can take care of the their customers they way they do. All of this undermines swift problem resolution and customer service.

      Suggestion:
      Train deskside team members specifically on how to redirect onsite customers to the front line of the service desk.

      I have delivered this people-skills training and practice sessions to deskside teams for years. And with the front line tooled and ready, the deskside team members will have an easier time of redirecting.


    Responsibly pour the tools and knowledge into the front line of IT service desk and you will see customer productivity and satisfaction soar.

    Include all teams into the IT service desk structure. Service desk is not just the front line. It is one large team that serves the customers with consistently excellent customer service.

    Have all teams working together to proactively prevent problems and the need for customers to call. The front line of service desk learns the big customer picture across the organization. It understands the customers’ urgency, sees the impact of broken technology, and can provide great insights on preventing problems. The other resolver teams have deeper knowledge to build prevention.

    Admittedly each customer hopes for a day of zero defects. When problems arise, they just want them fixed as quickly as possible to stay productive.

    Resolve the threat of blocked teamwork and see the corporation value the IT organization as a critical partner in productivity.

    From my professional experience to your success,
    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™

    Related Post: CIOs, Are Your IT Teams Truly Customer Focused?

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    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™, is a former IT professional. She delivers coaching, consulting, training, and keynotes on customer service focus, teamwork, and leading change especially to technical organizations. Kate turns interaction obstacles into business success. See this site for workshop outlines, keynote footage, and customer results.

    The Future of Customer Service & Customer Experience Without Silos

    More and more C-Suite executives are seeing the business value of a super customer experience. Because B2B and consumer customers have easy access to more experiences and choices, customer experience is becoming a competitive differentiator.

    Leaders, Customer Service -- Fixing Failure or Building Success?

    Customer Service Teams

    Will this be turning point of recognition that you have long desired?

    Historically, leaders have viewed customer service as an expense that fixes company failures instead of brand building moments that contribute to business success.

    They have poured resources into other aspects of customer experience (improved product design, redesigned sales channels) all with the view of reducing the need for customer service.

    They have also looked for any way possible — from off shoring to automated reps in online chat sessions — to reduce the operational costs of customer service.

    Now that customer reactions to those steps have been less than WOW, companies are reconsidering the business value of the culturally focused human touch in building company success. Who better to tap than current global customer service teams?


    Customer service teams: Are you ready to embrace the changes needed to fulfill the new role?


    Customer Service Leaders: Key Questions to Ready for Success


    Metrics.
    How many of your metrics are focused on measuring cost and justifying your customer service teams’ existence vs. measuring customer experience? Of course cost is always an issue. Yet in the new success role you will play, it only takes on meaning if paired with what you are delivering that the customers value.


    Re-allocating Agent Time.
    Customer service operations managers — how would you react if the leadership asked you to allocate agent time to participate in other customer experience activities — product design review, listening to focus group feedback, participating in projects to redesign the online customer experience? Would you want your agents to contribute to these opportunities or worry that that it would drain your department temporarily or permanently?


    Networking to Build the New Role.
    Customer service managers — are you currently networking with your peers in other customer experience departments? How are you actively working to break the silos and build success for the company with other teams involved in customer experience?


    Retraining Agents.
    On customer service teams where there has been an extreme focus on cost metrics (e.g. average handling time), you may need to un-train and retrain agents for this broader role. Are you open to this?

    Also, if you have also set the culture to be highly competitive between agents by publishing individual agent metrics, you may need to build collaborative skills to work with other customer experience teams and to focus all on unity of purpose.

    This change is low risk and high return. There are many customer service teams who have met their performance metrics without agent competition and internal collaboration improves the customer experience.


    Reorganization.
    OK customer service managers — now for the tough question. If leaders were to float the idea of reorganizing to integrate customer service teams into other customer experience departments, would you resist? This is difficult for it may mean a dramatic shift in your role and career.

    Overcome the fear of this change by realizing the potential for your career in having exposure to these new opportunities. Just as your agents will flourish from this cross pollination of professional development, so will you.

    Be aware of the signs that you are holding on and resisting change:

    • Insisting it won’t work because the cultures and goals of the various teams are too diverse. Instead establish the new goal of a seamless customer experience and build one culture to match it.
    • Foretelling catastrophe in operational performance if these changes are made. Performance has to match the newgoal!
    • Interpreting the idea of reorganization as a condemnation of all your efforts to date

    Address the last one by stepping up and proactively lobbying to replace the old fixing failure view of customer service departments.

    Show leaders in your company that you and customer service agents can build bridges between all customer service & experience teams for the success of the company.




    If you truly want to rid your customer service teams of the fixing failure role, step up and champion the idea of a seamless super customer experience.

    The future of customer service and super customer experience will be built without silos. Customer service managers — why not lead the way?

    From my professional experience to your success,
    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™

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    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™, delivers coaching, consulting, training, and keynotes on customer service experience, teamwork, and leading change. She turns interaction obstacles into business success. See this site for workshop outlines, keynote footage, and customer results.

    As The People-Skills Coach™, leaders often ask me why they haven’t been able to engage employees.

    In many cases, I discover that their attitude and communication is one of several reasons. In fact, there are 5 legacy attitudes to replace for employee engagement.

    Leaders, 5 Legacy Attitudes to Change for Employee Engagement

    I see leaders holding on to these legacy attitudes when they are solely focused on results and not the teams who must get there. They also do it when they assume that the people they lead are just like them.

    These leaders succeed when they shift their philosophical beliefs. They engage employees much better once they see that people are diverse and that employee engagement does not block, reduce, or delay results.

    Employee engagement drives results through inspiration and nourishes commitment to the highest quality, best results.

    Your communication, people-skills, and interpersonal connection engage with employees to that end.


    Leaders, Replace These 5 Legacy Attitudes to Engage Employees


    • Prove me wrong. Although this sounds like an inspirational challenge to employees, it also smacks of the legacy attitude — “I, the leader, am right until or unless you prove me wrong.” Change the focus from you to the idea in question. Engage employees around ideas and results, not around you.

    • “If that’s all you can do.” As changes in business require new skills of employees, they often struggle with how to stay competent and feel competent. On more than one occasion, I have heard managers say to these concerned employees, “well if that’s all you can do … ” (meaning their current skill).

      This legacy attitude of questioning employees’ competence does not make them work harder. The issue is not effort; it’s skill redevelopment. They are already concerned about their continued competence. Lift them up and engage them with diverse opportunities to learn new skills. Disdain does not engage!



    • The Assembly Line Approach to Leading People

    • No news is good news. This not-so-golden legacy nugget is based on the idea that employees should routinely do what they are initially told until further orders arrive. Yikes – the assembly line approach to people! Can’t you just picture the little people widgets rolling along?

      Meanwhile, communicating engages employees for best results. It gives them information about focus and purpose, and it inspires commitment to results. Engage with knowledge on how the company makes money. Offer worthy kudos for their specific talents that contributed to the end results.

    • Communicating how employees’ contributions advance the company’s greatness, nourishes greatness. Anaerobic bacteria are the only things that grow in a vacuum; people and businesses don’t.


    • Work things out for yourselves – you’re adults. Leaders who want to focus primarily on end results often side step team issues under the guise of empowerment. One recent article (the URL for which I cannot find at this moment) claims we should “take the bubble wrap off employees” and let them work everything out themselves.

      Leaders, aren’t you employees too? Why not share your special insight to help reduce conflict and re-engage the team on the end result?

      When you overlook team issues, success overlooks your teams. Abandonment is not a success strategy.

    • If you don’t see me doing it, don’t do it. Wow — the Simons Says approach to 21st century success. Leaders, will this attract top talent to your team? It might get you obedient followers but that burdens you with creating all the success.

      If you want collaborative innovators
      who use their talent and acumen to produce success — replace Simon Says with something at least at the level of Pictionary! It’s much more engaging. (What game would you suggest?)



    If your personality or experience makes you highly engaged and focused on results, you may make the classic mistake of assuming all employees are just as engaged. Yet if they were you wouldn’t wonder why they aren’t.

    Focus on the reality of today’s leadership requirements. Engage employees through knowledge of the business, training, appreciation, and accountability to draw out maximum contribution to the best end results.

    From my professional experience to your success,
    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™


    Related Post: Leaders, Take This Pain Free Journey to Engaging Employee Accountability

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    Former customer service agents and tech support reps often have empathy for customer service and technical support teams. They remember the pressure and are considerate.

    It begs the question: Why do many customer service and tech support agents forget the experience of being a customer?

    Experience should make it easier to give empathy, right?

    Or Does Experience Dull Empathy?

     

     

    Experience and knowledge can blind customer service agents and tech support reps to customers’ …

    • Emotions of needing help
    • Fear of not knowing
    • Frustration of being delayed in lengthy procedures
    • Impatience with being routed and transferred
    • Anger at being trapped in the maze of customer support
    • Vulnerability of having to trust others with their success

    Experience and knowledge deliver confidence and a sense of control — the very things that lower fear and vulnerability.   Unfortunately for some agents and reps this reduction in vulnerability also dulls their empathy.  

    And the saga isn’t over yet.   When you add the pressure of customer service work to the picture, it often makes agents and reps even less empathetic to customers.

    Consider: When you are under incredible pressure do you care less about other things that normally bug you?  You just want to get rid of the big pressure so you minimize or overlook everything else?

     

    YET … to the customer the things you want them to overlook still matter! 

     

    The best agents and reps overcome the dulling effects of experience and pressure by:


    1. Being aware of how they feel outside of work when they are customers.
    2. Repeating the following before each shift, one call at a time!  This focus delivers empathy.
    3. Picturing the customer relaxing as their reassuring words manage customers’ emotions and experience meets customers’ requests and solves problems.
    4. Embracing the true role of service and support — to make life easier for the customer and/or get them productive again!

     

    Agents — abandon the myth that your job is simply to solve the problem.  Your job is to deliver a wonderful experience while solving the problem.

    Turn your experience into a channel of empathy and an easy win for each and every customer!

     

    From my professional experience to your success,
    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™

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    People often focus on major career shaping milestones like earning a degree or relocating for a better job. It’s harder to see the psychologically uncomfortable career shaping opportunities yet well worth the effort.

    5 Psychologically Uncomfortable Career Shaping Opportunities Image by:kroo2u

    When leaders and managers must decide who to place on new projects, in newly vacated job spots, and in managerial and leadership posts, they draw on their everyday observations of staff behavior. How you behave in difficult and uncomfortable situations creates an impression that shapes your career opportunities.


    5 Psychologically Uncomfortable Career Shaping Opportunities

    • When You’re the New Kid on the Block. Moving onto an existing team can be uncomfortable. How will your expertise be received before you’ve had time to build trust? If you are adept at asserting without pushing, leaders see you as an asset to critical collaborations and sudden teams.

    • When Deadlines Loom and You Have Little Information. These situations can challenge your sense of self-confidence and competence. If you perform well without blaming other groups for the void, leaders see you as a resourceful asset worthy of trust for tough high profile assignments.

    • When You’re On a Toxic Negative Team. Do you succumb to the negativity — even if just to fit in? Or are you the lonely voice of inspiration that holds strong and re-inspires others? If you inspire in the face of naysayers, leaders see you as the turnaround titan that keeps productivity flowing.

    • When Emotions Are Running High. Many people hate conflict. Avoiding it impacts results. Fueling it can be disastrous. If your focus and insight triumphs over emotion, you pop to the top of the next leader list!

    • During Rapid Start-ups. Start-ups present a huge revenue and public relations challenge to companies. The learning curve is an expense. Delay is risky. The stress of these start-ups crushes many people. If you are a fast fearless learner undaunted by a lack of structured training programs, leaders see you as pure profit and risk reduction.



    What does it take to develop these traits and seize these opportunities?

    1. Desire
    2. Persistence
    3. Continuous improvement

    You can strengthen your ability to blend into new teams, handle ambiguity, stay inspired, improve focus, and embrace fast change. In fact, you can achieve most anything you desire.

    Leaders will notice; confidence and commitment burns bright.

    From my professional experience to your success,
    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™

    Related Post: Be & Perform Like a Ferrari

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    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™, delivers coaching, consulting, training, and keynotes on customer service, customer experience, teamwork, and leading change. She turns interaction obstacles into business success. Masters in Organizational Psychology. See this site for workshop outlines, keynote footage, and customer results.

    For decades, leaders have heard the same outcry from customer service, call center, and technical support teams: “We have to treat the customers well even when they are yelling at us. Why do they get treated better than they treat us?”

    Service and support leaders, managers, and team leads ask me: “Kate, how do we counter that?  Beyond our efforts to treat team members well, what’s the answer to this endless outcry?”

    It depends on what you think the team members seek. If you hear it as an outcry for equality and fairness, you might be tempted to say “because they are the customers” or the old standard “the customer is always right.” Your reply affirms that it is not an equal relationship.

    Well fairness and equality may be part of what customer service and tech support teams want. Everyone deserves to be treated with basic human respect and most organizations do not tolerate true verbal abuse on either side.

    Customer Service & Tech Support Leaders: Do You Hear the Envy?


    Nonetheless, the outcry continues.


    I can affirm, after 23 years of training these wonderful teams, that the other part of the outcry is envy. 

    It’s understandable how agents, reps, analysts, and associates could envy the customers’ privilege of:


    1. Showing anger and dissatisfaction; they can’t.
    2. Receiving help; they give it and often don’t get help from other teams.
    3. Participating in industry conferences; they rarely see the light of day.
    4. Attending training for professional growth; they have limited access.
    5. Having time to work projects completely; they are expected to perform well while simultaneously clearing the queue.
    6. Working a regular schedule with holidays and weekends off; they often work shifts or are on-call.
    7. Being respected and valued; few top leaders recognize service and support as vital to the organization.



    Leaders, The Impact of Envy in Customer Service
    The risk and impact of this envy is worthy of your attention.

    • It stops teams from consistently delivering the ultimate in customer service. If their heads and hearts don’t love being in service, they won’t.
    • Unchecked envy emphasizes the feelings of unworthiness and diverts valuable focus from service to the imbalance.
    • It impacts the teamwork critical to delivering outstanding service.
    • Unaddressed envy can fuel high staff turnover. Some turnover is healthy for service teams. High levels are a warning sign of a service organization in trouble.

    Understanding this has given many leaders and me the chance to cultivate a non-envy culture that inspires and delivers service greatness.

    Through workshops, we have helped the front line managers, supervisors, team leads, and staff to replace envy of customers’ privileges with pride in:

    • Breadth of knowledge
    • Continuous learning through experience
    • Great ease and style in working with people — valuable and not everyone has this prowess
    • Multi-tasking and ability to work under pressure
    • Professional skill of being empathetic and objective — many doctors don’t even have this
    • Inspiring yourself and others to excellence



    To build and sustain a non-envy service culture, it is necessary to help service team members discover a sense of fulfillment. I rarely hear the cry of envy from service team members who are fulfilled in other ways.

    Fulfillment squelches envy
    whether it comes from their family life, years of work experience, inner peace, gratitude for having a job, comparison to previous jobs, or a tremendous high from reaching results in the face of adversity.

    Leaders, showing appreciation and recognition for service team’s work and helping them build a positive service team identity feeds fulfillment.
    Working with your peer leaders of non-customer facing teams to build the cross teamwork necessary for mutual success feeds fulfillment.

    Declare your vision to your teams and ask them for their insight on how to achieve it. Telling does not engage excellence; asking does.

    Offer training to develop their professional skills. Budget for temps to cover service demands while service team members present a case study of their achievements at an industry conference.


    Face team problems, like envy, stress, and morale, and your teams will achieve success.

    I look forward to helping you take your customer service and tech support teams from inspiration to action.

    From my professional experience to your success,
    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™

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    Leaders, 12 Worthy Kudos to Spark Employee Engagement
    The Ultimate Customer Experience – Challenge of Excellence (video with sound)

    ©2012 Kate Nasser, CAS, Inc. Somerville, NJ. If you want to re-post or republish the content of this post, please first email info@katenasser.com for terms of use. Thank you for respecting intellectual capital.


    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™, delivers coaching, consulting, training, and keynotes on customer service, customer experience, teamwork, and leading change. For 23 years, she has turned interaction obstacles into business success. See this site for workshop outlines, keynote footage, and customer testimonials and results.

    Leaders, recognize employees for their individual strengths and talents and spark employee engagement. Plenty of studies support this claim. Plenty of leaders think this means company recognition programs, awards, and celebratory events.

    That’s nice yet nothing sparks other human souls like sincere appreciation of their worthy unique strengths.

    Let your people-skills shine and applaud the employees’ natural talents with worthy kudos. No matter the age, the gender, the occupation, or the title, the employees connect with the future when you spotlight their present strengths.

    Leaders, 12 Incredibly Evident Kudos to Spark Employee Engagement Image by:LexnGer



    As you read through this list, think of the potential joy, energy, and engagement these kudos can spark.

    12 Worthy Kudos to Spark Employee Engagement


    1. Organized without being rigid. In this day of do more with less, information overload, and enterprise integration of everything, organized people who can flex and adapt are a treasure to any business. Tell them. Applaud it!

    2. Thirsty for knowledge and application. Business is moving fast and furious to fulfill the present and create the future. Employees who are constantly learning and applying it are both the fuel and the ballast for success. There’s a worthy kudo!

    3. Sensing potential and spotting futility. Employees who can accurately sense when to advance an initiative and when to recommend scrubbing it propel the organization forward and prevent it from falling. Laud this worthy talent.

    4. Tough, thorough, and reliable. How often do you overlook those that you can totally depend on? Change it. Tell them how much you truly appreciate their constancy and commitment.

    5. Intuitively strong. Today’s focus on data sometimes minimizes those who use their intuition for everyone’s benefit. They move highly data driven people from stagnation to appropriate risk taking. Applaud their worthy insight.

    6. Analytic and creative. These two talents are often thought of as mutually exclusive. They aren’t. There are employees who can create ideas and analyze to implement it. These dual talents also serve well to bring teams together for project success. How about another round of applause here!

    7. Passionate and restrained. Passion is inspiration that renews itself and energizes others. It takes passion to ignite success and restraint to stay on course. Employees who contribute both make your job as leader easier. Worthy of applause and gratitude!

    8. Positive and realistic. A positive attitude sustains everyone and realism sharpens the vision and prevents being blind sided. Successful entrepreneurs have and value it. If your employees have this, it’s worthy of a compliment!

    9. Grateful. Employees who live their lives with gratitude often minimize workplace drama. Their inner sense of happiness and control filters noise instead of reacting to it. They aren’t doormats yet they easily see what truly matters and let the rest of the baloney fall away. They bring balance to new teams. Offer gratitude for their gratefulness!

    10. Remarkable in people-skills. Great people-skills are the daily life blood of an organization. Interacting skillfully with each other, with customers, suppliers, regulators, auditors, and the media in a multitude of settings delivers success to the business. Don’t drain the lifeblood by ignoring it. Replenish it with an occasional remark of worthy appreciation.

    11. Resourceful. Employees that shine in creative problem solving convert obstacles into pathways of success. Who in your organization is highly resourceful? Tell them how it makes a difference!

    12. Confident. Distinctly different from arrogance, confidence delivers great presentations, strength in new challenges, accountability for results, and willing ownership of mistakes. Show your appreciation for this maturity. It’s worthy of it.



    Noticing and applauding employees’ talents and strengths sparks joy and engagement. Who wouldn’t want to commit when they see and hear their value?

    Sales teams get to see it in money. Show it to non-sales teams in your reflection, remarks of appreciation and worthy kudos. It’s a no cost and high return investment!


    I welcome your additions to this list. What other employee talents and strengths have you applauded?

    From my professional experience to your success,
    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™

    Related Post: Leaders, 10 Ways to Ignite Greatness Without Leaving Scars

    ©2012 Kate Nasser, CAS, Inc. Somerville, NJ. If you want to re-post or republish the content of this post, please first email info@katenasser.com for terms of use. Thank you for respecting intellectual capital.


    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™, delivers coaching, consulting, training, and keynotes on customer service & experience, teamwork, and leading change. Kate turns interaction obstacles into business success. See this site for workshop outlines, keynote footage, and customer results.

    Leaders, what behavior do you expect among team members? This is not a trivial question especially if you are new to leadership.

    How you define teamwork shapes how you will inspire, lead, and facilitate or solve team difficulties.

    Beyond the expectation that all work together to produce success is often the unstated hidden set of expectations that can silently unsettle or even destroy teamwork.

    If you are a new leader, it’s valuable to sit back and admit to yourself your definition of teamwork.  With clarity of your basic beliefs, you and the teams can have a better discussion to define teamwork.

    New Leaders: 10 Gritty Questions to Define Teamwork

    10 Gritty Questions to Better Define Teamwork


    1. Does teamwork mean blunt frankness, diplomatic honesty, or ultimate polite respect? Team members have diverse styles. One blunt team member can offend others. One ultra polite team member can confuse others and fall short. What do you value and expect of them?

    2. Does teamwork require caring for each other personally? If yes, to what extent? What if a team member has a serious illness in their family and amasses debt? Does teamwork mean that all show empathy and donate money to help out? Can a person be a good team member and not do that?

    3. What if people don’t like each other personally but pull together to achieve success? Does that meet your definition of teamwork?

    4. If one team member has a critical specialized skill or achieves more, does that entitle them to extra respect, special treatment, or more recognition from you? It happens and your view of it impacts teamwork.

    5. Do you expect the team to work out their own interpersonal difficulties? There is much debate about this today. Some say yes and others see the leader as a valuable team facilitator.

    6. What do you expect of existing team members when new members join? Would you expect them to actively welcome team members for quick integration? What if they are a bit skeptical and hold back to see what team members have to offer? Is that teamwork to you?

    7. How will your teams work with other teams? Great teamwork within a team can sometimes stifle cross teamwork. What is your view and how would you address this issue?

    8. Tight team member relationships produce one of the toughest teamwork issues – whistle blowing. What would you want a team member to do if aware of unethical behavior, bullying, or major mistakes by another team member? Is whistle blowing a duty or disloyalty to the team?

    9. Disagreements occur. What place and purpose do they have in teamwork? Do you expect high levels of harmony or do you see value in discord?

    10. How will you assess teamwork? By the interaction and end results or just end results? If you view only the end results, the team may think your expectations of their interaction as inconsistent and illogical.

    When a leader asks me to improve team function, I ask the leader to paint their view for me and I speak separately with the team members. The comparison unearths the gaps and sketches a road map to high performance and success.

    What is teamwork to you? I look forward to understanding your definition and working with you and your teams!


    From my professional experience to your success,
    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™

    ©2012 Kate Nasser, CAS, Inc. Somerville, NJ. If you want to re-post or republish the content of this post, please first email info@katenasser.com for terms of use. Thank you for respecting intellectual capital.

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      Insights on Handling a Self-Serving High Performing Team Member
      Team Whistle Blowing: Duty or Disloyalty?

    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™, delivers coaching, consulting, training, and keynotes on customer service & experience, teamwork, and leading change. Kate turns interaction obstacles into business success. See this site for workshop outlines, keynote footage, and customer results.

    Musings on Effective Meetings from The People-Skills Coach™


    In the workplace, leaders and teams still search for ways to hold tremendously effective meetings. Despite years of pundits’ advice, side trips into tangent land, chatty corner conversations, habitually late arrivals, vibrating smart phones and tablets, tunnel vision, resistance, and lack of focus keep everyone from the bulls-eye.

    They also leave most people dreading the next meeting.

    So I wonder, will we find the Holy Grail if we leave meetings in the dust and instead hold a meeting of the minds?

    Leave Meetings! Got a Meeting of the Minds?

    Words do matter and the word meeting has always been too vague for me. It has confused workplace teams for decades. A meeting and its 21st century cousin, a meet-up, suggest a free form event to which people can arrive fashionably late.

    Whereas the phrase, a meeting of the minds, is packed with clear requirements.

    A meeting of the minds,


    1. Sounds the knell of knowledge exchange that calls everyone to be there on time — else there’s no exchange.

    2. Suggests there is a specific topic and purpose. You wonder a meeting of the minds “on what”? It breeds interest and focus.

    3. Prepares the mind to be ready to meet. Most would feel embarrassed to attend a meeting of the minds and say only I don’t know or I’m not prepared!

    4. Inherently requires listening, discussing, and participation of all minds. Unless everyone is telepathic, all must engage else the views stay hidden in the minds.

    5. Engenders all to speak in terms that others understand else the minds don’t meet.

    6. Brings the endless talker up for air to hear what other minds think.

    7. Bends the obstinate else why are they at a meeting of the minds?

    8. Coaxes all to agreement and decision. After all, isn’t that the meaning of we came to a meeting of the minds?

    In the workplace today we have multicultural teams, virtual technology, global reach, and still that pesky problem of ineffective meetings.

    I say we’ve got nothing to lose by giving meetings a new moniker and seeing if it gets us to the Holy Grail.

    Maybe we should even hold a contest to see what the new moniker should be if a meeting of the minds doesn’t hold everyone’s attention!

    What say you?

    From my professional experience (with a wry twist) to your success,
    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™

    ©2011 Kate Nasser, CAS, Inc. Somerville, NJ. If you want to re-post or republish the content of this post, please first email info@katenasser.com for terms of use. Thank you for respecting intellectual capital.

    Related Post: 7 Steps from Brutally Blunt to Helpfully Honest


    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™, delivers coaching, consulting, training, and keynotes on leading change, customer service, customer experience, and teamwork. She turns interaction obstacles into business success. See this site for workshop outlines, keynote footage, and customer results.

    Leaders, people-skills are critical to success. Yet in a demanding business pace, people-skills are often last on the learning list.

    Luckily leaders and teams can build proficient people-skills while attending to critical business. The proficiency starts with attitude and flows into people-skills’ behavior!

    Leaders, 12 New Thoughts to Proficient People-Skills Image by:Sean MacEntee



    Hold and Use These 10 Thoughts


    1. An open mind creates phenomenal results.

      Most people feel respected, honored, and uplifted by an open mind. Both in output and in morale, it produces positive results. There are some exceptions yet overall it is a winning thought. Build proficient people-skills from an open mind.


    2. Teams strengthen a leader’s reality.

      When we remember that our vision, understanding, and experience gains momentum with a team’s perspective, we are more likely to respect their input and collaboration. Build proficient people-skills from this awareness.


    3. Understanding people leads to influence.

      Most leadership is actually influence in action. To effectively influence others — team members, customers, and even your boss — understand what they care about. Knowledge of others builds proficient people-skills.


    4. Know when your people-skills naturally shine.

      Complete this sentence: I am best at people-skills when ____________________________. Identify when you usually interact well with others. Is it when you are happy? Confident? Relieved? Celebrating? Respected? In need? In difficulty? When is it? Capture what you do during these times and apply it across the board. Your natural pattern can build proficient people-skills.


    5. People-skills deliver in tough times.

      Contrary to popular belief, people-skills are not a sign of weakness. In tough times you can draw on the good will you have built through people-skills to deliver otherwise unachievable results. “Because of our long standing relationship, I’ll do it for you.” That’s an homage to your great people-skills!


    6. People-skills are not just for extroverts.

      If you are more introverted than extroverted, repaint the image you have about people-skills. It is not about gregarious, outspoken, high energy behavior. People-skills is stepping outside of your own perspective to understand and interact effectively with others. High extroverts have just as much adaptation to make as introverts. Both can succeed if they seek to understand.


    7. Bonds are not bondage.

      Many leaders having a driver personality crave end results not relationships. In fact, many believe that bonds with others are a detour to success and a trap that stops them just short of the finish line. Yet unless these leaders truly do everything themselves to reach success, bonds with others are the road to the finish line. Knowing the difference between bonds and bondage builds proficient people-skills.


    8. Finding fault stops progress; finding solutions ignites success.

      One of the riskiest people-skills moments for leaders is during a crisis or failure. That trigger voice that says: “Who’s at fault?” can bury future collaboration forever. Great people-skills can guide the organization back to success and to a culture of accountability. A focus on success, not blame, can build proficient people-skills.


    9. If you overlook team problems, success overlooks your teams.

      Morale matters. It impacts results. Team member people-skills affect morale of the team and the results of the organization. “They are not children. Let them work it out themselves.” These beliefs cost the organization money and sacrifice success. Accept the truth about morale and you build proficient people-skills.


    10. Get over being comfortable; get versatile.

      Global business success requires constant growth which means the discomfort of change. Focus on the versatility that people-skills bring to your success and you will build proficient people-skills!


    Thoughts drive behavior and create a chain of reactions. Hold these thoughts about people-skills and build valuable bonds that strengthen results.


    Which of these thoughts rings loudest to you? Or would you add to or delete something from this list?

    From professional experience to your success,
    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™


    Related Post: Leaders, 10 Ways to Ignite Greatness Without Leaving Scars

    ©2011 Kate Nasser, CAS, Inc. Somerville, NJ. If you want to re-post or republish the content of this post, please first email info@katenasser.com for terms of use. Thank you for respecting intellectual capital.


    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™, delivers coaching, consulting, training, and keynotes on leading change, customer service, customer experience, and teamwork. She turns interaction obstacles into business success. See this site for workshop outlines, keynote footage, and customer results.

    The word leader used to mean strong, directive, and sometimes unfeeling. That picture has shifted to less directive and more in touch with employees’ needs.


    Yet where is the balance between results-focused and people-focused? In tough moments …

    Are you too nice to lead?



    Are You Too Nice to Lead, Effectively?

    Image by: SeanbJack via Creative Commons License


    There are team members who want, welcome, and will only work for a nice leader — until they see that the nice leader won’t address poor performance and cannot negotiate tough issues with other teams and management.

    They feel unprotected and at the mercy of slacking team members and other teams. So much for being nice!


    Too Nice to Lead

  • Leaders, could this be you? How or when is this most likely to happen?

    1. With Fear of Conflict. If you tend to avoid conflict and want people to just work things out for themselves, you may be seen as too nice to lead.
      Alternative: Get a coach to help you develop your conflict resolution skills. Great leaders move past their fear. They know when to step in and even teach others how to work together.

    2. In Times of Great Change. In everyday work, your teams think of you as a very effective leader. Then the organization announces a major change and you must lead your teams through it. The tension rises and your teams resist. In this moment of truth, do you lead them forward? If you cave in to their objections and resistance, your boss may see you as too nice to lead.
      Alternative: Have the courage to draw on the good will you have with your team. Show them you believe in them and in the change. If you don’t believe it, why should they?

    3. When You Require Emotional Support. Being humble and less directive can be good for your team because the void taps their talent and commitment. Being less confident and needing constant emotional support can scare the bejeebers out of them and earn you the label of too nice or weak to lead.
      Alternative: Learn and understand the interplay between being confident and being humble. Confidence is strength for your team. Humbleness opens the door to growth. Both are valuable leadership traits. Lack of confidence isn’t.

    4. If You Must Be Liked. Needing to be liked can steer you to many poor leadership behaviors. It can drive you to sacrifice results for the virtual hug. This can earn you the label of too nice to lead.
      Alternative: Develop relationships outside of work that can fulfill this deep need. At work, focus on the balance of interpersonal connection and end results.

    5. When You Get Promoted. Picture yourself leading your former peers and maybe even being a peer of your former boss. Guilt or feelings of unworthiness can make you seem timid or too solicitous. This can earn you the label of too nice to lead.
      Alternative: Your boss or another leader put their faith in you. You were promoted for a reason. The team you lead needs your courage and talent. Even if some team members grouse in jealousy, the team’s success depends on your willingness to do the job. Embrace the responsibility you were given; don’t trigger the decision maker’s doubt and regret. Believe in yourself, the purpose, and the team. Lead.

    6. If You Own Their Behavior. When you mistakenly believe that you are responsible for a team member’s behavior, you are at risk of giving an errant employee too many chances. You may take their behavior as your failure. If you are coaching one of your team members and they are not making progress, would you be able to tell them they are no longer on the team? If not, you may earn the label of too nice to lead.
      Alternative: Afford your team members the adult responsibility of owning their own behavior. Coach, teach, guide — yes. Own their behavior? No.

    7. When Your Career is Paramount. When you care about your career growth more than the current position, you may automatically say yes to other teams or management requests instead of using appropriate assessment and thought. You are busy pleasing everyone else and your current team’s success may suffer. If you are lucky, this may earn you the label of too nice to lead. If you are not lucky, it may earn you a different label that isn’t fit for print. Either way, it’s not what a great leader does.
      Alternative: Let current successes, appropriate interactions, and great negotiation pave your career path.



    As the definition of leadership has shifted from rough directive behavior to engaging employees, some leaders have veered off course and focused only on happiness.

    Rediscover the balance and you foster success for all!


  • Leadership is not about telling or asking; it’s knowing when to do each.
  • Leadership is not about people or results; it’s about people achieving results.
  • Leadership is not one consistent approach; it’s using the best approach for the situation.



  • You can be liked and fail as a leader; you can be disliked and fail as a leader.

    You succeed when you balance purpose and people, encouraging and deciding, listening and speaking up.


    I wish you courage and strength and the insight to know how to use it.

    From professional experience to your success,
    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™


    ©2011 Kate Nasser, CAS, Inc. Somerville, NJ. If you want to re-post or republish the content of this post, please first email info@katenasser.com for terms of use. Thank you for respecting intellectual capital.

    Related Post: Leaders, Are Your Direct Reports a Wart on the Arm of Progress


    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™, delivers coaching, consulting, training, and keynotes on leading change, customer service, customer experience, and teamwork. She turns interaction obstacles into business success. See this site for workshop outlines, keynote footage, and customer results.

    Leaders have leaders reporting to them. If you are a top leader, do you know if your direct reports are fueling growth, change, and success?

    Or are your direct reports a wart on the arm of progress — blocking change despite what they are telling you?


    Leaders, Are Your Direct Reports a Wart on Arm of Progress? Image by: Charles Williams




    5 signs that your leaders are a wart on progress:


    1. They demoralize teams by speaking about the past instead of the future. Example: Why didn’t you or we should have. No matter how this is spoken, it doesn’t fuel commitment to change. It fuels resentment, fear, and guarded behavior. Progress flourishes with learning and confident exploration.

    2. They say they will lead change while claiming there is not yet enough data, time, or resources to make a decision. Their wart may be the fear of failure or inability to see ahead from the current picture. Effective leaders know that progress materializes from incremental steps not a complete roadmap.

    3. They seem like star performers yet can’t rally others to star performance. Their wart may be an unwillingness to stand back for others to shine. They are so headstrong, they listen to nobody and block team input. Teams need to have a voice else they sense progress is outside their grasp. Related Post: Is Our Knowedge Too Noisy to Listen?

    4. They crush others with the demand for perfection. Their wart is perfectionism. The quest for excellence breeds progress; perfectionism kills it like the disease it is.

    5. They are a lid that fits any pot. Their wart is lack of identity. Teams rarely trust them for they feel clueless. Flexible leaders inspire contribution and progress; nondescript leaders leave teams bewildered without a vision. Without vision, progress falters.



    If your organization is not progressing toward the vision, look at the leaders reporting to you.

    Are they inspiring teams, communicating, and breeding excellence? Or do they suffer from any of the 5 warts noted above?


    Your mentoring or guidance from a professional coach can remove the warts and get the organization, once again, on the road to progress.

    From my professional experience to your success,
    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™


    ©2011 Kate Nasser, CAS, Inc. Somerville, NJ. If you want to re-post or republish this post, please email info@katenasser.com. Thank you for respecting intellectual capital.


    Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™, delivers consulting, training, DVDs, and keynotes on customer service experience, teamwork, and leading change. She turns interaction obstacles into business success in tough times of change. See this site for workshop outlines and customer results.

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