Customer Experience Repeat Daily: Love the Customers Not the Rules
by Kate Nasser |
I have written before how rigid rules ruin customer service and customer experience. Well, once again loving the rules instead of the customers has created a disastrous customer experience. This time the headline is about American Airlines and how they treated a blind customer with a service dog. Please everyone in customer experience repeat daily …
Customer Experience Repeat Daily: Love the Customers NOT the Rules
In the case of American Airlines and the blind customer, the airline staff made a classic error that we see repeatedly. Employees become frustrated and dogmatic when customers advocate for their own needs. They make it worse when they quote rules to justify their frustration. The better choice? Show care. Seek, find, and communicate options.
Everyone working in customer service and customer experience faces the challenge of balancing rules with showing care. You can easily balance these two with emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and people skills.
- Be aware of your frustration before it shows. Replace it with empathy. Your frustration tells customers you wish they would go away. Your empathy tells them they matter. To be great in customer experience repeat daily, I can show customers care and follow the rules.
- Believe in your authority; don’t flaunt it. Flaunting your authority says that you are focusing on you. It is an immature approach to interaction. Develop a more mature approach. Realize that when customers advocate for themselves they are not challenging your authority. They see a gap between what you are saying and what they need. If you flaunt your authority even more, you widen the gap. To close the gap between you and customers, communicate “we” not “me.”
- Think options vs. yes/no. When customers see you looking for options for them, they experience care. As you advocate for them, they can relax and stop pushing.
- Be proactive. Spot special needs and offer care before customers experience a problem. Showing care proactively builds tremendous trust. It replaces the us/them struggle with customer cooperation.
Customer experience repeat daily: Balance rules and care.
Customers want to hear, you’re the reason we are here. What can we do for you today?
Leaders, do your employees know how to do this without throwing away all the rules? Or is their allegiance first to the rules and then maybe to great customer experience? If it’s the latter, they will come across as loving the rules and not the customers.
Solution: I have a special interactive workshop that will train your employees on how to show care without throwing away all the rules. We even cover how to respond to customers without saying the rules are. Contact me for specifics and customer testimonials about this workshop.
From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™
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