Employee Insight: 12 Reasons Leaders Communicate Poorly | #leadership
by Kate Nasser |
Employee Insight: 12 Reasons Why Leaders Are Poor Communicators
When companies bring me in to help employees adapt to and implement change, what strikes me is how often the employees don’t understand what’s going on. (Repeated studies show that clear communication is a top factor in effecting change.) Not surprisingly, in these tough moments, employee insight on why leaders communicate poorly comes pouring out.
From discussions with these employees, I have compiled the communication checklist for leaders. This has helped many of my clients and now it can help you. I welcome your additions and comments in the comments section below.
Employee Insight: 12 Reasons Leaders Communicate Poorly
Leaders assume we understand the big picture they have access to. They don’t communicate the background yet expect us to move forward. Employee insight: Don’t assume we know as much as you do.
Leaders get caught up in their own responsibilities. Thus they unintentionally skew the message to what is weighing them down. Employee insight: Write down your worries but communicate the whole picture. Else we hear only your worries.
Leaders are so focused on the end results that they jump over the details right to the finish line. As they jump, they leave us in the dust. Employee insight: Give us more than the destination else we can’t get there.
Leaders skip issues they don’t have answers to. They do this to prevent confusion or to avoid personal embarrassment and vulnerability. Yet, these gaps often cause more confusion in a changing environment. Employee insight: Identify the gaps and let us know that more information will follow.
Leaders’ expertise blinds them to what others don’t know. This syndrome, expert-itis, undermines clear communication. Employee insight: Invite our questions and have the patience to answer them.
Leaders are often impatient. Be it from personality type or pressure of the job, leaders often communicate as infrequently as possible. Employee insight: Clear and succinct is OK; confusion and silence isn’t.
Leaders repeat the communication style of their leaders. As they try to manage their leader, they sometimes take on their leader’s pattern of minimal communication. Employee insight: The further we are from the top, the more information we need from you.
Leaders don’t account for diversity of background, education, and perspective. Teams are diverse generations, cultures, upbringing, and experience. They aren’t leader clones. Employee insight: Check the stories you use, the jargon you choose, and the references you make. Are they universally understood?
Leaders sometimes under or over prepare to communicate. When they under-prepare they don’t foresee gaps and questions. When they over prepare, they can become rigid and scripted. Employee insight: Prepare what you have to say and then open up to a true dialogue. We can help you clarify what we don’t understand.
Some leaders have a fear of public speaking. To them even speaking in a meeting of ten people is scary. The result is poor communication. Employee insight: Focus on how much your communication will help us. We aren’t judging how you speak. We just need the information.
Leaders who communicate far more of the negatives than the positives, communicate poorly. Communication is about truth and vision. Employee insight: When you communicate what’s wrong, we can fix the current trouble. When you communicate what is going well, we learn how to create success.
Leaders underestimate how much communication sustains others. Even leaders who communicate information clearly, sometimes don’t communicate enough appreciation. Morale and engagement suffer. Employee insight: Don’t take us for granted or detach from us. Leadership is about inspiring us!
From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™
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