Moderation Doesn’t Mean Mediocrity | #Leadership
by Kate Nasser | 4 Comments »
Moderation: Leaders, Do You See It As Mediocrity?
Leaders, when you think of success does the word moderation quickly come to mind? Or do you see moderation as mediocrity and a quick path to the sidelines?
Actually, they are quite different — almost opposites. Mediocrity is the ordinary, unremarkable, and unexceptional.
Moderation is exceptional judgment and restraint. It guides all to success by avoiding the brink of disaster. It is the insight and critically timed shifts that maintain balance as we forge ahead.
Why does it matter? Beliefs drive actions and believing success comes only from extremes can drive our success right off the edge.
The Wisdom and Power of Moderation
Great leaders consider diverse views.
They firmly believe that open-mindedness is not indecisiveness. They ensure that their singular view doesn’t produce extreme tunnel vision or group think. This moderation engages everyone’s commitment and builds ownership to reach organizational success.
Great leaders embrace both optimism and realism.
This moderation embraces the value of honesty and healthy skepticism while keeping everyone’s can-do attitudes alive and ready for action.
Great leaders know when to tell and when to ask.
Leadership is not about telling or asking. It’s knowing when to do each. This moderation taps employees’ current talents and share the leaders’ experience for the greatest accomplishment. Leaders who live in the extremes of telling blindside the organization from untapped team knowledge. Those who waffle in constant asking rob the team of growth and scuttle success. Both these extremes breed mediocre results.
Great leaders see both the big picture and the need for the steps to get there.
Many leaders are big picture thinkers yet they lose patience with the details and challenges. Suddenly, they feel trapped — stuck in the weeds that are stifling progress.
Yet, great leaders moderate their reaction and respond with insight for they see the difference between needless detail and necessary plans to hit the mark. This moderation honors all the implementation teams and boosts morale and employee engagement.
Moderation does not preclude bold strokes and heroic leaps.
As moderation clears the view, bold steps have fewer unknown hurdles. Big decisions have a more solid base of support.
Moderation counterbalances risk.
Gymnasts and dancers know that when forces hurl them in one direction they must counterbalance to avoid a crash. Great leaders do the same. They moderate to secure equilibrium because it accelerates success.
If we think moderation means mediocrity we mistakenly seek excellence only in extremes – and incur unnecessary risk. Moderation doesn’t mean mediocrity and mediocrity doesn’t produce the greatness that moderation can create.
Moderation is the power of balance. It’s the keen perception and good judgment of where and when to move without careening out of control. That is its greatness.
From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™
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Very nice, Kate. I believe moderation is a form of control — self-control mostly, but that’s not all it is, of course. It connotes a willingness to stand in tension, to “create a clearing,” and as you say, to operate with discernment, a term that at its root means “to separate.” To me, moderation is all about the moments of discernment that separate self-indulgence, extreme viewpoints, and delusion from the act of truly seeing into a situation.
When I was in college and the war in Vietnam was raging, a friend, noting the demonstrations on our campus after Kent State, pointed to the need for “people to think for themselves.” It was a day when many were in the street confronting the National Guard, pepper gas was being thrown around, and someone had set off some dynamite in a nearby campus building. My friend explained the polarization that was happening to students, the resulting ramp toward confrontation and violence, and how easy it was for any of us to get pushed and pulled to one vantage point or another — essentially, to take sides. There was a lot of pressure to do just that. It was a gift, then, listening to his words, to instead look and to reflect, as if from a riverbank. That was our discernment. Then, taking a stand was really a personal choice, a product of awareness — one not based on fears of disapproval from friends or family; nor a mindless rebellion against those fears either. Moderation to me is closely linked to consciousness and, in the midst of the extremes, to make an insightful, personal choice.
A truly wonderful story/example of the value of discernment. When I first read your blog posts and connected with you on Twitter, you were and are the model of discernment before action.
In your comment above, your statement “To me, moderation is all about the moments of discernment that separate self-indulgence, extreme viewpoints, and delusion from the act of truly seeing into a situation” — I very much applaud your sentiment about being able to see the situation before acting upon it. People do it at different speeds or they communicate at different times yet if they are all using some discernment it breeds much success.
I am so grateful for our connection for I grow from your insights.
I love this, Kate! So many people I work with want to stop simply doing a good job and feeling invisible and go all out. Thank you for putting into context how going all out can also benefit from moderation. I think that for many individuals #5 in particular will be like a lightbulb going off. Permission to bring moderation, planning and strategy to their bold actions.
Great post to spark thinking for the new year!
Thank you Alli! Going all out (as you call it) with balance is the pathway to greatest success. Balance is not inactivity nor stasis. It is constant awareness, correction, and readjustment while in motion!!
I am honored by your contribution and time in commenting on this post.
A VERY Happy New Year to you!