People Skills Chat May 5th: #PeopleSkills for No Regret
by Kate Nasser |
People skills Twitter Chat TOPIC: #PeopleSkills for No Regret.
WHEN: Sunday May 5, 2013 10AM EDT/7am PDT.
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Background on This Sunday’s Chat
Jackie Hooper, author of The Things You Would Have Said, moved me with her book. She received thousands of letters from people who wanted to express regret for things they had said or loving things they wish they had said but didn’t. It got me thinking about the value of reversing the regret process and considering our words before we speak.
Shout Out of Gratitude
Jackie Hooper has agreed to join in this Sunday’s chat. Thank you Jackie for your research, your hard work, your book, and your interest in this Sunday’s chat.
Join People Skills Twitter Chat Sun. May 5th ’13 10am EDT/7am PDT.
There are many aspects to this topic. My mind is full of questions like …
- What benefit does someone get from saying hurtful words?
- Why do people take so long to express regret for hurtful words?
- How does expressing regret make you feel?
- How does expressing regret to those you hurt make them feel?
- Where does emotional intelligence play into expressing loving words?
- How can we learn to suppress hurtful words and speak with more care?
- Is it more acceptable in our society to say very loving words or hurtful words? Why?
- How can you make it more OK to express truly caring words at work?
- People who often speak lovingly ___________________________.
- Which people skills build bonds for caring interaction?
- What have you learned personally from regret?
- Is it tougher to regret hurtful words you’ve said or loving words you haven’t said?
- Does delaying apology/regret make it tougher to accept?
- What brings people to hurt those that never hurt them i.e. bullying?
- Why do people stand by silently when they witness verbal bullying?
- Would regret come more quickly if we spoke up?
- How can people skills help prevent regret?
We won’t be able to discuss all of these questions and thus I will make a final selection before the chat. Tell me which ones you like the most or suggest other questions in the comments section below!
Hope you will all join in the #PeopleSkills Twitter chat to explore People Skills for No Regret, this Sunday May 5, 2013 10am EDT/7am PDT.
Everyone is welcome! We have only one rule in People Skills Twitter Chat: Respect for all even when we disagree.
TIP: If you have never been in a Twitter chat, you may find it helpful to log on to Tweetchat.com, enter hashtag #peopleskills, and sign in to your Twitter account. Tweetchat will insert the hashtag automatically for you and you will see all the tweets on one screen. Other tools available are Hootsuite.com and TweetDeck.com.
I am the founder and host of the chat and will be happy to answer any questions you have in advance: Email me.
Chat with you this Sunday May 5, 2013 10am EDT in #PeopleSkills Twitter Chat – People Skills for No Regret.
Until then, as always, I wish you bonds of happiness and success!
From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™
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Kate Nasser, The People-Skills Coach™, delivers coaching, consulting, training, and keynotes on leading change, employee engagement, teamwork, and delivering the ultimate customer service. She turns interaction obstacles into interpersonal success. See this site for workshop outlines, keynote footage, and customer results.