Essential Truth: Be Verbally Abusive & You Lose Everything | #PeopleSkills
by Kate Nasser |
Being verbally abusive makes you lose everything. You lose your dignity, reputation, trustworthiness, relationships, customers, potential opportunities, and the list goes on. So if you ever get close to verbally abusing others, stop. Remember, when you verbally abuse — you lose. Here’s why.
Why Being Verbally Abusive Makes You Lose Everything
Once you are verbally abusive, those who witness it will never see you as worthy of their respect. They will never completely forget how you dehumanized others and will not trust you. It’s unlikely they will see you in a positive way again. As for those you verbally abuse, they have nothing more to lose by treating you badly in return.
You have played your whole hand and have no cards left. To them your degrading outburst is inhuman and you are a zero. Even when you apologize, they see you in the same way.
Increase Your Self-Awareness to Avoid Verbally Abusing Others
Do you ever feel …
Disrespected and devalued?
Powerless to get what you want?
Pushed around and stepped on?
Over-extended and running out of patience?
Entitled to hurt/harm others?
These and similar feelings are warning signs. Step back and take time to strengthen your self-worth. Verbally abusing others can never do that. When you value yourself, you hold on to your integrity and your power. Congratulations on believing in yourself and not verbally abusing others!
From my professional experience to your success,
Kate Nasser, The People Skills Coach™
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